my bf and i have been dating for almost 5years now. but i moved out of the country 2years ago for work. and we havent seen each other for tht long. both of us decided to remain exclusive and have a long-distance relationship bec we realy want to marry each other when i get back home. its realy hard. but i love him so much and i know tht he loves me too. i even told him that if he cant handle this kind of relationship, then we can break up and i wud understand. but the thing is, would he last that long w/o having, u know, sex. i know i shud trust him but i need a guys point of view about this. if u love a girl and plan to marry her, wud u really wait and remain faithful?
2006-11-21 08:47:07 · 4 answers · asked by no way! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is yes, HOWEVER, Since it has been two years you BOTH have changed and you have to have sometime with him to really determine if this is the one you really want to be with. It is like dating a whole new guy.
I was involved in a LDR (long Distance Relationship) for three years. Yes we saw each about once a month but when we thought it was getting serious I moved to Boston to be with her. We made it for about eight months before we decided that maybe this was not the best thing for us.
I do not regret the time spent on this relationship and still love her as a friend, but I learned so much about her once we got back together that I realized that the distance keep us together not the love for each other.
I wish you the best and hope that it all goes the way you want it to.
2006-11-21 08:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first element dude, you gotta get previous the "splendor" element, in spite of the reality that she feels like a very effective individual, only communicate over together with her,do no longer enable your shyness reason her to look over you.. in the experience that your any form of a dude/guy/customary individual,,then you definately ought to convice your self that your worth talking to her. She's exhibiting that she's only as customary because of the fact the subsequent individual by utilising saying hi to different individuals. So say "hi" back, then ask how her day substitute into in school, or if she had some tuff project for homework. If no longer something tell her which you like the difference the shirt that she has on on the instant makes her eyes look.
2016-11-25 23:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and that's honest. If he really loved you and wanted to marry you he would have went with you or you would have stayed or gotten married first. Girl, life is short, you choose to take a job abroad so meet someone there and start a new life. He will and trust me. Guys love SEX
2006-11-21 08:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by blindcrush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking the wrong people. You should be asking him. But, if I loved a girl, and I knew she was really in love with me and she was really going to come back and marry me, I would wait.
2006-11-21 08:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋