okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do? what other signs should i be looking for? i need answersand plenty ofem
2006-11-21 08:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You love her because of how she makes you feel. She loves you because you still hang out with her, still talk to her, still give her all the attention & response that she wants/needs without the bf/gf status.
Want her to come closer? Get a girlfriend.
Try this... I'm so serious here... it will get into her head...here's what you tell her...
"I can tell by looking at you that he's not giving you the passion & attention you deserve. I'm not saying I'm the answer, but you deserve better. You are a gem, girl, one in a million and you deserve a one in a million guy. Give yourself the opportunity to get out & enjoy what else is out there. I'd hate to see you settle down so soon."
YOU MUST KEEP AT LEAST THE 1ST SENTENCE. The rest is optional & up to you.
2006-11-21 08:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so here is the deal u should ask her inadvertently if she likes u maybe with something like "if u didn't have a bf would u date me"
then if she says no shes just being nice to you
if she says yes then tell her how you feel be aware that this will change realationship 4 ever
2006-11-21 08:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by malcolm_crpntr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should ask yourself if you really want to give your heart to someone who has no problem stringing one guy along while she looks for his replacement. Aren't you worth more than that? Let's face it, if you end up being her boyfriend, what's to stop her from doing the same thing behind your back? It could also be that she is using you to make her boyfriend jealous.....
2006-11-21 08:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many more signs do you need? Be brave and ask her how she feels. Would you rather just sit back and watch her go the other way and regret not trying the rest of your life. Life is too short. Go for it!
2006-11-21 08:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to those who wait. Be patient. Now is not your time. Stay close as frineds but don't disrespect the relationship she is currently in. When the time is right, she will be with you. Good luck.
2006-11-21 08:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hEY
Tell her how you feel, just don't expect for her to feel the same way even though you say that she has giving you so many signs...we girls are tricky, and that sux...but yeah, don't get ur hopes up until you hear and I LIKE YOU TOO from her mouth and no one elses or that so called signs you feel she had given you...GOOD LUCK!!! and if you ever decide to tell her how you feel, let me know what happens!! lol I would like to know...LOL
2006-11-21 08:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather tell her how you feel and if she does not feel the same at least you know or live the rest of your LIFE wondering!!!
2006-11-21 08:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know but i think you too really should get to there...
i would just ask her how she feel and if she feel the same then make your move...
but if not then it could mess up your friendsship with her!?
you need time to think about what you need to do !?
2006-11-21 08:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by im not tellin you my name !!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one.. some girls are flirty to begin with.
so if she's really in love with her bf. you might not have a chance.
you should ask her if she is really sending out the vibes.
2006-11-21 08:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be. you had a chance and you ruined it. wait. whatever the lord will it must come to pass. if it is the will of the lord for you and her to be togather then it will happen. and i hope when it does happen i really hope you marry her
2006-11-21 08:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋