I was asked to go to work, to help pay bills and etc. Plus still be responsible to do all housework, the kids and homework, cooking, shopping and etc. Before marriage, I work, and had a roommate and did not have sex with my roommate. How can I separate this feeling that now I am a provider, protector and meet all of my own needs, when it is the man responsiblity to be the provider and protector? He also stated that I would pay my food at restuarants and etc. but I already do that with my girlfriends to hang out but not expected nor want sex with them, but yet he wants sex! Where is the romance? Where is the gentleman? Why do I have be the gentleman too? I feel like a freak, being feminine, being obedience now I have to be a man too makes feel feel awkward! Does anyone feel this way. Yes I am old fashioned, so I thought my husband to, but I guess not. The prices of childcare and etc., clothing, lunches and extra costs for me to work, will not be extra income as he thinks!
2006-11-21
08:52:50
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ourjacobdavid
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Marriage & Divorce