I work with a guy who I find so cute, and there has been lots of flirting between us, with looks, and smiles. I want to tell him that I want to go out with him but I'm a little scared of rejection. What do do. Please someone help me.
2006-11-21 08:52:49 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
2006-11-21 09:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I flirted with a coworker like that years ago...we ended up dating.
I asked her out for a drink and she kissed me while we were having our drink.
The only thing you should think of now is what if you two don't work out? The girl mentioned above and I didn't work out and she got NASTY at work. It didn't help much that not long after we started dating I was promoted to be her boss and after that we broke up and the fun began!!!!
It sucked!!!! She was a GOOD employee as well. I was happy and sad when she finally quit. (Happy because the hell was over and sad because she was a good employee.)
Good Luck though!!!!!
2006-11-21 08:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I meet my fiancee at work, I was like you nervous about rejection. Sometimes you have to bite the big one and go for it. Even if he's not interested in you romantically you may end up with a really great friend, and sometimes that is more meaningful.
Good Luck..
2006-11-21 08:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by queenkeva_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of environment are you in?
I know it is so hard, but from my experience coworker relationships are tricky & can have a negative impact on your reputation. Trust me, I've been there. I was tempted & gave in & now I wish I hadn't. Keep the flirting going as long as possible.
However, if either of you decides to leave? Pounce on him!
2006-11-21 08:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to conqour you must overcome your fears. Ask him out!!! If he rejects you then be strong and move on. :) Hold your head high not everyone can feel the same about everyone... YOu have rejected before I bet :) But I think you will do fine just be confident.
2006-11-21 08:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can remain being a afraid of asking him out and let another woman come in and get him. Best thing to do is ask him out and see what happens. If he really is in to you he will go out with you, if he turns you down better to find out now than later.
2006-11-21 08:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by John L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. However, I would suggest just saying something like "we should hang out sometime" or if there is something going on you could casually invite him. Maybe just ask if he wants to grab lunch. There is no need to be afraid of rejection.
2006-11-21 08:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is a part of life, but if things are as good as you state, he won't reject.
Say you want to go to the latest Bond film (I assume you do, right?) and see if he wants to come along
2006-11-21 09:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u arent sure he will say yes then make him come to you.play the little games us girls are great at.and if u do ask him out and get rejected remember and just say to yourself that he missed out on somthing great. good luck
2006-11-21 09:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people find there spouse at their place of employment. Be careful however this could cause one of you to find a different job.
Best of luck, but in the meantime HAVE FUN YOU SILLY GIRL!
2006-11-21 08:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋