Don't get me wrong. I love sex or I wouldn't have bedded down hundreds of different women over the past ten years. But once a girl gives it up, I lose respect for her and only think of her as my personal masturbation doll. I usually end up dumping her and only keep her around if she wants a "friends with benefits" relationship. Why do I think less of girls after I bang them? Is it because I feel that she has been conquered and so it's time to move onto the next girl?
2006-11-21 08:51:55 · 25 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably do because you're afraid of relationships and want to keep your heart at a safe comfortable distance. It's your coping mechanism for knowing that you may very likely die a very lonely man w/ many STD's.
I bet that if you were up front w/ the ladies and/or they knew your scorecard, you wouldn't be bedding much of anyone.
2006-11-21 08:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably based on cave-man evolutionary biology. Males have yet evolved to a point where spreading their seed is not constantly on their minds. In cave-man times (not long ago on an evolutionary scale) a man would want to have as many children with as many different partners as possible to create a diverse population. Birth control only just recently allowed women to accept this role as their own, and can have sex without worrying (too much) about having a child.
2006-11-21 09:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by mizzouswm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, yes. That is it. Usually what i have found in men is that as much as they go out and "bang" women they dont see them serious, they are just too immature to settle down. But once they do decide they always want a sweet girl that they can come home to that has morals and respects herself enough to not sleep around. Good luck!!! You are in a normal position.
2006-11-21 08:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps from now on you should just use your hands and conquer yourself, instead of "moving onto the next girl." Did you ever maybe think that women are people too, or is that still too hard of a concept to grasp?
Get your own personal masturbation doll. They don't talk, so you can spare a real woman her time. She won't move or think for herself, therefore she is constantly CONQUERABLE!
2006-11-22 11:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably. It might be a fear of commitment or something.
Obviously, I know absolutely nothing about you but perhaps you've had some sort of psychological trauma that you might not even be aware of. Maybe you were cheated on when you were younger or something? Perhaps you've 'learnt' this attitude from caregivers, friends or even the media.
It sounds a little to me that you are looking for something (maybe love) and you arent finding it which is leading to disatisfaction. On a medical note, perhaps you should talk to a therapist or something. It might help.
2006-11-21 08:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by shadow_raven150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What????? I went through that with the first 3 chicks I nailed but then actually started liking keeping the same girl around. You don't lose respect for them, you are so afraid one will want you to commit and you can't handle that. GROW UP!!!! Later....L.G.
2006-11-21 08:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by michael a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur just a bogus person inside and out who only wants to be satisfied..u dont care about female feelings at all after they slept with u, ur only concerned with getting ur penis satisfied..dude its time to grow up...and u say hundreds of girls huh? Did u know that every 1 out of 3 females have an STD and every 2 out of 3 guys have an STD..uhh do the math sweetheart get ur self checked out..condoms dont prevent STDs like everyone thinks..trust me cuz i work for trogan company..
2006-11-21 08:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because it bothers you to think that a woman would actually like sex (a LOT of guys - including me - feel that way)
So, once a girl has had sex with you, that lowers your opinion of her, and you don't want her anymore. She's "dirty" now, and you want to go on to another, "clean" girl you haven't slept with, but once you sleep with her, she's "dirty" too and now you have to find another girl.. and the cycle goes on..
Maybe that's why you've been with hundreds of women because you could never settle down with one after she agreed to have sex with you?
2006-11-21 08:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if shes giving it up within in a week or a month I see why. If she's waiting it out and not sleeping with you instantly then you have problem. Or, You just haven't met you math or "The one."
2006-11-21 08:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by KrisTina Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you think that once she sleeps with you, she is as big of a scumbag as you are. And if a girl rejects you, you then realize that she actually has better things to do with her time than be used by a std infested perv.
2006-11-21 08:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by noway 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋