2006-11-21 08:57:44 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I went through the same thing a few weeks ago. I am no longer
her friend. I told her to pick. Having a friendship with me
forever or keep cheating. She said for me not to ask that
of her. Well, the last time I talked with her was for Halloween.
It really wasn't a talk. She kepted leaving messages on my
answering machine. I never called her back. I met up with one
of our friends and I shared with her how I felt. My friend now
knows why I choose not to be her friend.
We can't choose our relatives, but we can choose our
friends.
Its a matter of how good of a friend she is to you. I only
knew her boyfriend for two months. It wasn't right that she
was sleeping around on him and he was off shore making
money and paying her bills and cleaning and cooking for her.
It was making me sick and I knew I had to stay away from her.
The worst part was that she was sleeping with my Brother.
So,it was pretty sticky there. NOw she is sleeping with my
cousin.
The choice is up to you and whether you want him to know
or loose a friend.
Think if it was your brother she was cheating on. What would
you do?
I don't need her in my life as a friend. I think she used me to be
my friend to know more information with my brother.
He is only using her for a piece. And no one is suppose to
know about it. I will tell my brother one day and she won't have
a dick to call here own.
2006-11-21 09:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a tricky one.
I was faced with this same problem about 6 months ago. I actually told my friend and she didn't believe me she accused me of trying to break them up etc.We stopped talking because of it. Finally she found out the truth, I'm not sure if he confessed or she just figured it out. Now we are talking again.
I would say it very much depends on how tight your relationship is with your friend. Do you tell each other everything? You could take the view where it is not your business to tell tales. As you know what is going on it puts u in an awkward position and you will end up hating the cheater because of what he/she is doing. If your friend finds out you knew all along this could also cause more difficulties.Just tread carefully find out the facts, ask your friend how the relationship is going maybe drop some hints.
hey Good luck
2006-11-21 09:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by peekabooicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have proof. Some woman will believe there partner over a friend or even a family member. Just make sure you can prove it or you might lose a friend over it.
2006-11-21 09:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell your friend.
If you must speak to someone, tell the partner you know and ask him to give you a good reason why you shouldn't tell the friend.It might make him think twice but I doubt it.
2006-11-21 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by migdalski 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I have seen on many tv shows of course you tell her. She may not beleive you, but if you know it you should try and get proof. If he gets away he probably wasn't that good of a guy anyway. In the end you should be more important to her than her bf so she will hopefully listen to you.
2006-11-21 09:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell her, after all she's your friend. In this case you are a no win situation, you don't want to interfere and you don't want to see your friend get hurt. If you have a good relationship with your friend where she won't think that you are lying, then I say tell her.
2006-11-21 09:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you...i would tell them because if there that good of a friend u wouldnt want to hurt them. Also wouldnt u want them to tell you if your boyfriend was cheating on you?
2006-11-21 09:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by kristinaPearlxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is a annoying one. the two i think of you ought to talk with the companion first, and permit her recognize that s/he ought to be the only to admit to the cheating on him. Or get evidence and tell your ultimate chum. ultimate buddies shouldn't shop any secrets and techniques.
2016-10-17 08:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by felio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your friend you should, but they will not want to hear it.
Hopefuly your friendship is strong enough to take this.
But havign some type of proof wouldn't hurt.
2006-11-21 09:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must tell them or arrange away for them to find out theirselves. I know if it was my friend i would probably best the **** outta that guy.
2006-11-21 09:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋