How do I direct my mans attention to only lust after me. He is my man and I want to keep him happy, When he looks at other women I feel I am not doing my job! Is it even possible to keep him looking only my way?!?!?!?!?
2006-11-21 08:58:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is impossible a man eyes will wonder but as long as you have his heart it doesn't matter what he sees he will only wanna be with you
2006-11-21 09:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by the one 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I think as a woman you just have to accept that guys are going to check out other women. Make fun of him for being a pig or ignore it, but the more you get upset about it, the more he's going to feel trapped and that you're trying to change him. You'll keep his attention better by being so confident that you know even if he looks at other women, you're the only one he wants.
2006-11-21 17:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Marjie F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why worry is long as you are reaping the rewards. You want him to look at you and only you well human nature says that ain't going to happen. But the key is that he is loving you and only you. Besides, is he the only man you look at when you all are out and about??? Come on, I know you probably sneak a peak. You might be out with the girls and you are telling me that you don't look at any other guys??? I don't think so....LOL
2006-11-21 17:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now this may not be the answer you are looking for but this is a normal thing that men do. Now I told my wife if there ever comes a time when I may not notice a good looking woman, then her husband is going down hill and here love life may be dieing!!
2006-11-21 17:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cars... i think i heard a comedian once try to explain why guys look at other women and even fool around is because you have to think of yourself as a car and no matter how fancy a car is you will always at least look at other fancy cars and if you can afford it [but it cost a lot in more ways than one!] buy another fancy car! if you get tired of the one you have! so how many cars have you had and are you tired of yours by now? [would you like it if you could trade up at no extra cost for a Jim carry model? huh?!]
2006-11-21 17:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... Men tent to do that. WE have no shame when looking at other women. That is our nature. But what you can do, is to let him know that you are there for him, because after all, we do appreciate the company of a woman.
2006-11-21 17:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl I feel u... I asked a similar question like this a few minutes ago and it looks pretty hopeless... they are all saying guys will be guys and its in ur nature... but I totally understand what u mean by it makes u feel like you are doing something wrong....
2006-11-21 17:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are and will forever be visual creatures. Pretty much everything we do is based on what we SEE. Think about it, women wear make up and dress pretty so men will "see" them, men LOOK at porn women tend to READ their "romantic novels", we can't help it. It's in our genes. What we can, and should do, is do our best to control the impulse to look and stare.
2006-11-21 17:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by steve 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out what is lookiing in other girls. It could be some things like
1. The way they dress
2. Their attitude
and slowly try to switch to it..
Or when he comes back home. do somethings that suprises him. It does not mean you have to do it.. you can make him also do it.. if you know what i mean
2006-11-21 17:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by rockiee80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You're up against millions of years of evolution and natural animal instinct. Just because he looks doesn't mean he's a bad guy. It's what we do, it's our instinct. Just as long as he only eats at home, you shouldn't worry.
2006-11-21 17:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋