my husband and i always talk about each others sex lives back in the day, and lately he's really fixed on some thing i did in the past with a girl! so now he really wants a threesome! he wants to see me eat out another girl while we have sex!!!! i mean it would be really erotic for me to, but i'm a very jealous person!! what should i do???
2006-11-21 08:59:08 · 31 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are jealous DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!! Bottom line. and let him know you will not be able to separate from it and will constantly accuse him of wanting the other woman.
hate to use such a bad film but lets not forget Indecent Proposal.
2006-11-21 09:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happened to me once, where my gf and her friend were over watching a movie. My gf started messing with me and I became visibly arroused. She giggles and says to her friend, 'Do you want to help me take care of this?' We all took care of each other at the same time. All I can say is that it was awesome and the best part is that we're are all still great together. So, you've done it before. It would be really erotic for you too. I say let those panties fly. I think you'd actually enjoy watching him do another girl, while she eats you out. You pick the girl. Sounds great...Enjoy!
2006-11-21 17:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by seattlego 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who is up for the experience but WAAAAAY out of town. meet up in a hotel, enjoy the fantasy but enjoy it knowing that distance is such that it will only be a one-off and just toooo far for the girl to ever become involved other than the one-off treat?
Knowing that there is a definate end to this fantasy - and that you will be there and actibely involved - should hopefully make the jealousy isses managable for you - so you can all have fun
2006-11-21 17:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mark T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would change your relationship permanently. If your jealous and he tries something with the other girl (in the heat of the moment and all) that would upset you very much. On the other hand, if you think you could find a way to accept that and enjoy it might work out.
2006-11-21 17:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome could greatly improve your love life. It is someting new and exciting for you two to explore. You might even feel closer to each other after the experience. Don't feel threaten by the other girl, it will by you he wants to have sex with. If you feel preasued just talk about your worries and concerns about it with him. You never know unless you try.
2006-11-21 17:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tili L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should ONLY do it if you are comfortable with it. Perhaps meeting the prospective 3rd party first and talking to her - you and your husband together.
What if you put a condition on it that he was not to actually "have sex" with the other girl?
Good Luck on this one. Emotions are strong and can be fun!
2006-11-21 17:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW,,,,I only wish that my husband would even talk about sex and doing different things,,different fantacies,,,,,,I think if your comfortable doing it,,,if it will be fun for you,,, then have fun,,, your husband is asking,,,,,hes being honest and upfront,,,not many men do that,,,,and I understand how you could feel jealous,,,,,but you know what,,,,bet he is too,,,,and,,,, an eye for an eye,,,,ever think of a threesome with another man,,,,,,,,,I think if you love one another,,,have fun,,,(be safe) but have fun,,,help one another with your fantacies,,,as long as no one gets hurt or is uncomfortable,,,,I only wish I was as lucky as you,,,,you probably wont believe me,,,but its been 9,,,yes NINE!!!! years(YEARSSSSS) since I felt my husband touch me,, kiss me,,hold me,,sleep beside me,,,,HAVE FUN,, LIVE LIFE,,,what if everything ended tomorrow??,,, Good luck,,,,,
2006-11-21 17:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by sHyGaL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like you and your husband attitude. You have to really discuss this over with your husband and the other person involved, because you are going to get several different answers from people here as you probably already know.
I wish my wife had your attitude.
2006-11-21 21:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a jealous person, and if you really want to fulfill your husbands fantasy, then your best bet is to do the act with a stranger or someone that you don't see often. Otherwise don't do it. Have fun!!!
2006-11-21 17:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by mama4e 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes...
A 3some with yourself, hubby and another girl would be fine..
You and only you should invite the other girl..
He is never to invite, contact or speak to the other girl outside
of the bedroom...
This is a pretty safe combination and seldom results in problems.
Never ever have another man in your bed...
2006-11-21 17:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋