I have this boyfriend that i really like but my parents dont know about him and we been seeing each other secretly and to make it even worse he way to old for me by 4 years but he been so good to me. what should i do? we had sex
2006-11-21 09:01:16 · 13 answers · asked by vicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are obviously to young to have aboy friend especially four years older than you,you wont like most answers you get and thats because were older and understand the consequences of what your doing,you had sex? thats what a man four years older than you wanted from you it wont last much longer and if it does it will be just about the sex i could assure you he defiantely is seeing other females behind your back more to his age,i hope you have protection because getting pregnant is the last thing you need
2006-11-21 09:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm wait he's 4 years older than you? Yea.... So??? 4 years is not 10 yrs or even 20 years older...that would definitely freak any parent out. Just let your parents know that you really love this guy and care about him. Don't try to be so secretive about it cause you'll only end up getting hurt in the end. Secrets always have ways of coming out.
2006-11-21 17:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you seriously need to have a talk with ur parents and let them know whats going on. if u really value this relationship and take it serious then you would come out and tell ur parents. theres no need to keep it from them. and then when they do know theyll have a clue as to ur whereabouts. and there will be no more need of sneaking around
2006-11-21 17:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 keep it a secret if your parents find out your dead
2 it depends on how old he is
3 good luck with it
2006-11-21 17:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by kayia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off how old are you? Second umm i think you should tell your parents and tell them how you feel about this guy and why you think your old enough to make your own decisions and why they should trust you and let you make your own mistake if there is one to be made here.
2006-11-21 17:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy23w15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to have a baby and break the news to your parents. Goodluck to both of you
2006-11-21 17:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by troll_house_kookies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmm. well don't go though life lying tell your mom and pop the truth and mybe not right then and there but one day life well go on
2006-11-21 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did something wrong, but you can't do anything about it now. just tell your parents that you really love him. they should understand unless your to young.
2006-11-21 17:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the dude---he only wanted sex and u just gave it out freely....so sorry u lose
2006-11-21 17:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hope you use birth control and practice safe sex.
2006-11-21 17:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by sidekick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋