2006-11-21 08:58:32 · 27 answers · asked by Brina 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find out what is your role in marriage first. Your bible will states that Husbands love your wife as you love yourself! Wives. Submit yourself to your husband! Love, honour, respect, admire, and see your husband as awe! Give everything to your marriage, don't give up, see your husband positive and never go to be angry to set up the foxes in your vinyard! See your husband as a best friend, not a girlfriend, give him space and yourself space, meet his sexually needs, It is everything to him!
Keep yourself fit, ready for him, and don't let yourself go! Give him reminders, why he married you the first place, Yes he is a man, but he married and commited to you! Don't change yourself, don't try to change him! Do not nag and gripe! Have you ever heard your own mom going on and on with the nagging clean up your room? Cook or prepare his favorie meals, let him have guys time and allowed yourself girls time! Keep the high expectations of your husband down. He is not your daddy! Only daddys know how to treat you like a princess! You will see with your own husband with his daugter treating her as his little princess! Don't be jealous of your husband relationships that are apprioated, Take care of yourself, and meet your own emotional needs, with the girlfriends, journals, therapists, or in prayer with God! Most of all, Let God be involed in your marriage! Put your husband 2nd after God, then the kids, work or church. Make it your choice to be happy! Your husband can't make you happy!
Be confindent within yourself! Men are very attractive with positive confindent happy women!
Be wild in bed! Anything goes in the bedroom or whereever love making is placed. Quickies are ok, but make sure you express your sexual needs to him. A man really likes to make his wife extremely happy in bed! The more he see excited about sex, as he is he will want you more and make all the foreplay worth to meet all of your sexual desires! Husbands likes to be important to you in your life, and when the kids come, don't place him on a shelf just because he is capable of taking care of himself! Be a wife not a mom! Best of luck and hopefully this will help you the insight what might work in your own relationship in a marriage!
2006-11-21 09:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mostly time. If you're still together after 7 or 8 years, you have a good chance to go the distance.
Children can sometimes complicate a marriage, and when they're grown up and leave, they also leave an empty hole that wasn't being filled because the children always got the priority in the marriage relationship.
2006-11-21 09:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for over 16 years now. I think the most important things to remember is patience, understanding, and acceptance. Patience to deal with problems (money, different opinions, etc...). Understanding of each others daily lives and what you go though on a daily basis (stress or problems at work etc...) Acceptance of each other. (Bad habits that irritate, etc...) People don't change that much, but the things you have always done sometimes start getting on the others nerves. You have to be willing to work through it all.
2006-11-21 09:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by bhoney8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you must be evenly yolked. That means you must share common belief in major moral and ideological ideas. If your foundation of beliefs isn't shared, you'll always argue about what's important and what isn't.
If your marriage emulates the way God loves the Church, then your marriage too can survive.
2006-11-21 09:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by LGT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I am not married. I am in a relationship and it is hard. I think that marriage would be harder. I think it all depends on whether you and your spouse want the same things from life. And you have to learn to live with being disappointed in your spouse. Men never live up to what you expect of them.
2006-11-21 09:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes everything mentioned above and a lot of patience and compromise. Marriage is work but it is worth it.
2006-11-21 09:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bizzare J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust, sacrifice, honesty, thoughtfulness and individuality. You have to be there for one another spiritually, mentally and physically, but you also have to spend some time away from one another to keep the relationship healthy. Sometimes you just need to be yourself, instead of "wife" or "mommy."
2006-11-21 09:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must not only love each other, but you have to like each other, too. You should compliment your mate everyday about something -- no one wants to be with someone who makes them feel bad about themselves. They want to be with someone who brings out the best in them. Keep romance alive by continuing to "date" each other. And laugh together everyday. If something is bothering you, talk about it nicely, not in an accusing way, and try to resolve in peacefully.
2006-11-21 09:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Lancer said, along with lots of hard work and the willingness to make sacrfices sometimes.
2006-11-21 09:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selflessness... try not to be selfish. Lots of love, open communication and willingness to just laugh and have adventurous fun.
2006-11-21 09:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋