If you meet someone, date for 2 weeks, then learn they're moving more than 8 hours away in a month...?

Question

If you want to continue dating that person, but realise there's no way you could hold off everything for them, given the choices, what would you do?

A.) Push yourself into an unsure relationship with that person, knowing very well you'd only see them a couple times a year.

B.) Hold onto that relationship and also start another locally to maintain options.

C.) Break up with the person and start looking for someone else.

D.) Other.

(This question is to assume you are a decent person who does not intend to hurt anyone. The details of this question are not pertinent to my life or that of my friends. It is merely intended to settle a quarrel over morality.)

Answer 1

C. There's no point in dating someone you'll rarely see, and you've only invested 14 days, so probably a matter of hours with the person.

Answer 2

If u like that person enough, then I might suggest working on the relationship w/out holding a 2nd local 4 options. But 2 wks is kind of a small time, but I guess if u feel that this person might be a good one, why let go w/out trying?

Answer 3

Long distance relationships are tough. If this is the love of your life and you can be (move) together within 2 or 3 years then it may work. If not reality seems to step in and say cut your losses but be sincere.

Answer 4

D - just break up and try to leave everything in good terms, you never know when you will run into this individual again in your life, who knows maybe 5 or 10 years from now you may still be single and she may move next to you and be your next door neighboor....orrrr..... maybe not. So be fair and be honest.

Answer 5

Keep'em if you want'em or just dump'em.