My husband is hinting that we do a threesome or swing with some couples. But he said I should choose the guy or if ever somebody from another place that we dont know. Part of me is saying why not but I'm afraid I might get addicted to it. I am open minded but I still don't have enough gutts to do that. When I think about it, there are times I feel like its going to be fun. But I'm also scared I might get addicted to it and would keep on asking for it. I know there are risk, and we are only on our 3rd year of marriage.
He keeps on saying that he wants me to be happy and wants me to get into it since I'm the person who is very insatiable in bed. What should I do???? More answers the better pls........
2006-11-21 09:20:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like there is a freak waiting to burst out of you! Yeah, there is a risk. There is also a risk your hubby will cheat on you if you don't give him what he wants in bed. I think that's a double edged sword - you may lose either way. Is your husband sure he wants to see you with another man?
2006-11-21 09:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check this out, first of all you say you are very insatiable in bed I don't know how many men you've been with but maybe your husband just can't do it. It sounds like your fear of getting addicted is from enjoying someone elses dick better than hubbies.
2006-11-22 01:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone I know that has swapped, done a 3 way etc has been devastated in the end. There is so much emotional risk. The health/physical risk is just the tip of the iceburg. I suggest you find other ways to spice up your sex life. Bringing another person to your bed is just an invitation for trouble, and lots of it. Jealousy is a very destructive thing.......
2006-11-21 17:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by his temptress 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
One man one woman - anything else is not natural. You are playing with a ticking time bomb. You not only would be doing something immoral, you would be taking the chance of losing your husband or get both of you infected with something. The possibilities are endless. I can't believe your hubby would want this - sounds like he is the one who has a problem in the sex area. My vote is no.
2006-11-21 17:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Doug R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, your husband is very selfish, know your limits and ask yourself how far are you willing to go? Your husband will never be satisfied. He married you, not an orgy, he is disgusting to suggest such a thing! He has no respect for you and none for the union of marriage!
2006-11-21 17:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tristen T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start out by going out and flirting with guys. Maybe make out with them in front of hubby to see how you both handle it. If it's something you guys can handle, go for it.
2006-11-22 11:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by dwnaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for serious marriage troubles if you invite a third party in....
2006-11-21 17:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a marriage to me. Is the word "morals" in your vocabulary?
2006-11-21 17:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one sounds a lot like deja vu all over again.
2006-11-21 17:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do, call me and I'll be your third. I promise I won't give in to you all the time, I'll keep limits. For real call me!!!!!
2006-11-21 18:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋