A year ago, I dated J. a couple of months. We had fun, and he took me on the most romantic date of my life. We never slept together. I was in college, and very unstable (I lived in four places during the time we dated); he's VERY stable and I think it freaked him out. Plus, being so unstable, I was desperate to hang on to him b/c he was a pillar of strength...desperation is not a good quality in someone you're dating. I left on a 2 month trip (we emailed). When I came back, he invited me out one night, but the next day called me and said things weren't going to work out. He wanted to be friends and I said no. He had always been 'scared of commitment' b/c he had been hurt in a previous relationship, and he wasn't sure he was going to remain living in CA, and didn't want to get attached to someone here. I am now working in my dream job, have my own apt., happy with my life, and think I'd like to date him again. I miss him.Should I acknowledge I was wrong and ask to be friends again?
2006-11-20
05:37:23
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keengrrl76
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