When i tell my boyfriend things he says he doesnt believe me and tells me to prove it and that i have to figure out how to prove it. is this normal and does he just want reassurance?
examples of when he tells me to prove it:
when i say i miss him
when i say he's the only one
when i say i want to talk to him
when i say i want to be with him
etc...
does anyone know ways to prove these things ?! i need ideas
2006-11-20 05:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Turn it around and tell him he obviously doesn't trust you, which means he doesn't care (feel love) for you.
Now have HIM prove it if he doesn't agree! ;-)
2006-11-20 05:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares about you then he should know that you don't need to prove anything to him! and if he cant see that you prove it to him every day that you are with him. Than he obviously doesn't care enough about you to see it. When he says that to you just tell him that you prove it to him everyday by the little things you do... then name a few things off.
2006-11-20 13:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by shelbel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap. Why tell him any of those things? If you are only seeing him, and you talk to him, and you are with him...then why discuss? If you don't talk about it, then you don't have to prove it.
And, no that isn't normal....it's immature.
2006-11-20 13:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by voandginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to "prove" these kinds of thigns, he is just trying to get you into bed with him. Have you had sex with him? If not, this is why!!
2006-11-20 13:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by amanda r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being a jerk, why not tell him to prove to you...
2006-11-20 13:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't believe that you love him and it will all ways be a problem.
2006-11-20 13:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, find some one who appreciates you.
if you still feel a need to "prove" yourself ,
i got nothin.
2006-11-20 13:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't trust you, just forget him. Why do you need to reassure him?
2006-11-20 13:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Plumerias are from Hawaii! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BJ's
2006-11-20 13:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋