Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

I need help would this be right....?
I am 21 years old and I met this really beautiful girl we hung out for a while and she is really interesting. One possible issue though. I found out she is only 17! She graduated early ans is going to college now though. What should I do is she too young?

2006-11-20 05:14:15 · 45 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Singles & Dating

I m tring to say when your bf treat you badly maby he was in truble situation why dont try to for give him imeditly ? why do you start to do what as he treat you

2006-11-20 05:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by AMAR 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well my mom is against girls liking eachother (though her brother is gay) and some of my friends thinks its wierd and act different and seem afraid im gonna like them to. My boyfriend accepted it and we are still together. most of my freinds are supportive. how do i get my mom to accept me and my friends to realize that this is who i am and i want them to love me just the same as they did before they found out. i can't help the fact that this is who i am.

2006-11-20 05:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by kitkatpattywack 2 in Singles & Dating

is it possible. The whole thing makes me cringe. Just imagine someone the age of 80 shouting ' Harder! Harder!. Oh no, my vag is too dry. Quick get some lube' (shiver)

2006-11-20 05:13:32 · 43 answers · asked by naughty boy 1 in Singles & Dating

enormous pain in the neck to bring lunch since i work in nyc and take the bus in. also, i am an italian male and like most italian guys i get cranky when i dont eat right. am i being selfish for not bagging my lunch? i truly enjoy getting out for a few minutes during the day and finding something decent to eat on the streets of nyc. i feel it improves the quality of my life. am i being selfish for spending 5-6 bucks a day on this? in general, i am not a big spender but maybe she sees this as symbolic of a lack of willingness to compromise.
is this such a terrible thing for me to do? not that it matters but i also earn 2 1/2 times as much as she does. and her credit card bills average twice mine.

2006-11-20 05:12:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone, I am starting to fall for my best male friend. We communicate at least twice a day and the time together seems endless.There is a lot of intellectual curiousity between us. We have similar interests, and appreciate learning something new and different about each other's cultures. When I was sick, he used to call all the time to make sure I was doing well. He respects me and does not want to hurt my feelings. He hates feeling like a bad person around me. If I am in any trouble, he always helps me out. Most of all, he loves my personality. Whenever he shares music with me, and I tell him I liked the song, he blushes. We share our lives (give and receive) almost equally. One day, he told me, "I don't see you as a girl; I see you more like my partner." He also welcomed me to this home. We are not dating. Do you think he loves me?

2006-11-20 05:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by Charlotte Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

His jealous attitude is pushing me away. How should I handle this?

2006-11-20 05:11:56 · 24 answers · asked by IslandBabe 1 in Friends

My boy friend is angry most of the time, and when i ask him he says it's not about u and that he doesn't want to talk about it. What should I do with him?? Help me please , I'm going to lose my mind?

2006-11-20 05:11:54 · 15 answers · asked by queen 1 in Singles & Dating

does any one here live there?

2006-11-20 05:11:34 · 5 answers · asked by charley7515 2 in Friends

Thought I met a wonderful man, and one week into the relationship, I expressed how wonderful I felt about myself for the first time in a long time, and that I had begun writing again. He wanted to read some of what I wrote, and I said that it may be too soon into the relationship. I had written about us, the fire he ignited inside of me, the hopes for the future, him being the one...etc. Needless to say, when he left, he looked like a deer in headlights - this was Thursday...its now Monday. He just called, apologized for not contacting me, he had an emergency out of town, his cell got cut off, my number was in the cell that got cut off, etc. Do I believe him? Do I get my hopes up again after moping and feeling used all weekend? (I actually cried over this guy) I don't have alot of experience in relationships, so any advice would be helpful.

2006-11-20 05:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by ndngrlz 4 in Singles & Dating

I know I am, all these FAT girls telling me that NTFS is no good, whatever.

2006-11-20 05:09:58 · 19 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been 2 years since my ex-girlfriend and I broke up, and after looking at pictures of her I realize Im still crazy about her. We're both single and friends (but don't really hang out), but I have a feeling it won't work out they way I'd like it to. I need to get over her - I'm tired of missing her!

2006-11-20 05:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy advice. I'm in junior high and I have a little guy problem and it's not a life or death thing but I'd just like some insight?

Please somebody help?

2006-11-20 05:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The morning after a night of drunken sex the guy gets up and says " I have to go to a meeting, stay here and sleep, I will be back", was he running or did he really mean for me to stay?

2006-11-20 05:08:49 · 23 answers · asked by susan 1 in Singles & Dating

long story short: my on/off ex of 1.5 yrs (we were serious @ one point) finally broke it off and found someone new.this was right after it was announced that i found someone new.we both rebounded and that was obvious.however when i broke up with the rebound guy and went to my ex's apt and showed up crying. he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore. and then i told him that i wanted time away from him and he was devastated and said: "nono let's be friends! how about fri?"... which confused me. but nevertheless, i didn't talk to him for 5 days and he told our mutual friend that he was depressed but didn't know why. i got worried and gave in, and ended up having dinner with him. he hugged me and said: "i missed you SOO much." he also kept staring at me and said i looked good. then when we went to hang out with a mutual friend, he kept bringing up the past and calling me his old petnames. i still like him. what is he doing?

2006-11-20 05:08:22 · 14 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some good wedding ceremony songs?
Anyone know of good celtic music?

2006-11-20 05:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by arcticraven77 2 in Weddings

When, where, and why?

2006-11-20 05:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by AlanMM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 05:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married VERY soon!! (considering Dec. 7) but i need help thinking of ideas and planning it out!!

2006-11-20 05:07:25 · 9 answers · asked by Squirly_Girly 2 in Weddings

an old friend has recentley moved house.. i know his old address.. and i have lost his new address.. i know he only lives local to his old address tho..

does any1 know how i can find out his new address.. but for free.. i will pay as a last resort.. but can i find out the info for free anuwhere ?

thanx in advance for any help.

2006-11-20 05:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by big man 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 05:06:55 · 2 answers · asked by popcorn 1 in Friends

long story short: my on/off ex of 1.5 yrs (we were serious @ one point) finally broke it off and found someone new.this was right after it was announced that i found someone new.we both rebounded and that was obvious.however when i broke up with the rebound guy and went to my ex's apt and showed up crying. he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore. and then i told him that i wanted time away from him and he was devastated and said: "nono let's be friends! how about fri?"... which confused me. but nevertheless, i didn't talk to him for 5 days and he told our mutual friend that he was depressed but didn't know why. i got worried and gave in, and ended up having dinner with him. he hugged me and said: "i missed you SOO much." he also kept staring at me and said i looked good. then when we went to hang out with a mutual friend, he kept bringing up the past and calling me his old petnames. i still like him. what is he doing?

2006-11-20 05:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 05:06:26 · 6 answers · asked by popcorn 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 05:05:49 · 12 answers · asked by cuteness 1 in Singles & Dating

recently my bf told me that he thinks we should break up cuz he wasnt sure if he was over his ex. b4 we even got together tho, he said that he was over her. he said that old feelings came back when he saw her. i asked him has he ever thought about her prior to when he saw her. he said no. so doesnt that mean he's over her rite? i mean cuz if he wasnt then he woulda been thinking about her before he even saw her. i am nothing but gud to this boy while she did nothin but cheated on him the whole time. i dont understand how he could wanna go back to that? we talked about this for a long time and then he was like im sorry i said that idk wat i was thinking. i wanna be with u. he told me i have nothin to worry about. that will never happen again. but how can i be sure that it wont?

2006-11-20 05:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by shoppingfreak05 1 in Singles & Dating

because i open his mail found alot of girls who want to meet him but hes not innocent because he tell them im free wanna meet then gives his cell# and does this chatting or whatever u wanna call it in our home.

2006-11-20 05:05:01 · 33 answers · asked by ~K!MB3RLY~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I been with my boyfriend a Month and 3 days ..lol and he always says he Loves me but I really dont think you can love someone in a month of dating . I met him in august when school first begun for the year. Is it possible?

2006-11-20 05:04:28 · 4 answers · asked by tRuDiVa15 1 in Singles & Dating

long story short: my on/off ex of 1.5 yrs (we were serious @ one point) finally broke it off and found someone new.this was right after it was announced that i found someone new.we both rebounded and that was obvious.however when i broke up with the rebound guy and went to my ex's apt and showed up crying. he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore. and then i told him that i wanted time away from him and he was devastated and said: "nono let's be friends! how about fri?"... which confused me. but nevertheless, i didn't talk to him for 5 days and he told our mutual friend that he was depressed but didn't know why. i got worried and gave in, and ended up having dinner with him. he hugged me and said: "i missed you SOO much." he also kept staring at me and said i looked good. then when we went to hang out with a mutual friend, he kept bringing up the past and calling me his old petnames. i still like him. what is he doing?

2006-11-20 05:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex in-laws aren't happy with a situation we have. They normally see the children every Friday night, and my mother normally sees the children every Saturday night. They asked us last week if they could take the 7 yr old boy (there's also a 4 yr old girl) out of state for Thanksgiving. (we live in Illinois). This is the first year in four my mother has asked to see the kids for Thanksgiving due to family situations. We made plans to have her come here in September. Now, my ex-husband's now b/f's parents are saying they never get to see the kids and are threatening to take custody. Can they do that? The kids are healthy, happy, clean, smart... there is nothing wrong with how they're being raised or treated. My ex is no help, won't stand up for our rights as parents. They won't pick a fight with me, they just keep going after him. I want to keep peace between the families. What can I do?

2006-11-20 05:03:14 · 21 answers · asked by stunner_mama 2 in Family

I have know this guy for about a year now. And this past summer he told me that he like me. The only promble is that he had a girlfriend at the time. I didnt tell him that I like him too. Anyways about two weeks ago he told me that they are know longer dating. I didnt tell him how happy I was. Anyways.... The other day I saw him and we talk and the hole time he had his arm around me. I dont know if I should tell him how I feel about him because we have a good friendship and I dont want that to change but I want to be with him. What should I do?

2006-11-20 05:02:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends