recently my bf told me that he thinks we should break up cuz he wasnt sure if he was over his ex. b4 we even got together tho, he said that he was over her. he said that old feelings came back when he saw her. i asked him has he ever thought about her prior to when he saw her. he said no. so doesnt that mean he's over her rite? i mean cuz if he wasnt then he woulda been thinking about her before he even saw her. i am nothing but gud to this boy while she did nothin but cheated on him the whole time. i dont understand how he could wanna go back to that? we talked about this for a long time and then he was like im sorry i said that idk wat i was thinking. i wanna be with u. he told me i have nothin to worry about. that will never happen again. but how can i be sure that it wont?
2006-11-20 05:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by shoppingfreak05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i think that trying to keep a man in your life is very hard and i don't think a woman should force a man to stay that's the thing now the man want us to beg them to stay in our life. Woman need to let the man beg us if he wants to go back to that trash let him go girl, he is going to realize that running after something that doesn't even wants to stay with him.
Don't be the one to cry because i always say when one door close another door opens and i know that we are beautifully and wonderfully made by God.
God knows everything and if you try to keep someone in your life girl it is not going to work because they are going to think about the other person, cheat, lie to you that you are the most important think in their life.
Respect yourself and love yourself you don't need him and i am sure that he needs to be hurt because he even has the heart to let lie to you about her don't worry be strong you are not the first and the last person who has broken up with their boyfriend.
Stand strong we woman know how to survive because we are a survivor.
2006-11-20 05:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he suggests breaking up then maybe you should let this happen. Sometimes its hard to get over your ex when youve had a lot of feelings for them. If it meant to be then he'll miss you and come back and if not then is that really someone you want to be with. Respect his decisions and let him learn on his own and give hime time to heal if not then it will just be a sucky relationship and you both will never be happy. So all in all give him time to heal and date other people.
2006-11-20 05:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been since they broke up? And how long have yall been together? Its easy to think you're over someone with another woman around, until you see your ex again. I think he probably lied when he said that he never thought about her before he saw her. Not definitely, but probably (my opinion of course). I think that you should give him some time and space to figure if he's over her, and to really get over her if he's not.
2006-11-20 05:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what is going to happen if she actually come to him and wants to go back with him what do you thing he is going to do you don't say your age or how long he was with this girl but sit down and take it over with him just tell you don't want to get hurt and you are giving him the opportunity to put things straight good luck
2006-11-20 05:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by socorro c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a surprisingly wide question. I have confidence human beings except they provide me a reason no longer too. Ive been cheated on in the past so I certainly have even puzzled my husband in the past even tho he has on no account cheated on me or given me a reason to no longer have confidence him.. Im surprisingly beneficial its human nature. yet additionally being human, none individuals are proper and we screw up.. It takes time while somebody abuses have confidence. only take it sooner or later at a time. and in the experience that your have confidence subjects are approximately previous relationship you only ought to locate a thank you to enable that circulate and your bf isn't that individual.
2016-11-25 21:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's up for you to decided,i can only say if has feelings for his ex i don't thing it would disappear just like that,what if he sees her again and she invites him to her home will he be strong enough to fight temptation,he telling you was a good thing,but he told you because she is what he wants his feelings for her was always there,so be aware.
2006-11-20 05:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was looking for a reason to break up
2006-11-20 05:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't-- that's what trust is. even if you don't have hard-core proof that you can depend on someone to keep their word, you do anyway.
trust your instincts though. if something's bothering you, and talking to him doesn't help, then maybe you'd be happier not wasting your time on him.
2006-11-20 05:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very important! If you can't trust him what kind of relationship did you really have. "Take Care".
2006-11-20 05:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust him...i had a boyfriend like that and he is bad news
2006-11-20 05:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by shell bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋