because i open his mail found alot of girls who want to meet him but hes not innocent because he tell them im free wanna meet then gives his cell# and does this chatting or whatever u wanna call it in our home.
2006-11-20 05:05:01 · 33 answers · asked by ~K!MB3RLY~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Print out the emails and confront him. Then tell him to pack his crap and get out of your house. Tell him that now, he really is free.
2006-11-20 05:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penguin Gal is from the ghetto "you needs to be dwine dis".
OK, look- don't confront him yet! Keep checking the mai, and geting more info from these girls, like their numbers and addresses and stuff. Then harrass the f out of them. Also, pose as one of these girls in a made up email address and then meet him at the planned place, and ask him what he is doing there like Chris Hanson, haha!
I hate ******* like this guy, I'm a single guy and I play by the rules, and I gotta put up with married boy over here? Don't worry, it's not just girls who hate these guys.
2006-11-20 05:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! This has just happened to me recently too! He doesn't have a cell phone so he hasn't talked to them in person yet!! But he's flirted nonchalant like with them online. I was in his emails because we both kinda share it. Unfortunately I found out because I went on before he did the one day. Before he could delete them. I confronted him and he says it's just harmless flirting that it meant nothing. Not sure wether to believe him or not. I would confront him but not accusing him. If that makes sense. It's been a couple of weeks and we are trying to work things out but I'm still devastated. We've been together for 12 years. I don't wish this on anyone. I'll be praying for ya!
2006-11-20 05:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by gnine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. He's either cheating or going to. You dont talk to women like that and tell them your single when your married if your not wanting something else. Im sorry for what your going through. Good luck. And also print the emails out in case he tries to delete them!
2006-11-20 05:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him first with what u know, tell him how much this has hurt u, if he fails to take responsibility, or he lies, or tries to push it under the rug as if it isn't that big of an issue than theres not too much hope in changing the situation, and what u see is what u get. if he is telling other's he is single, and giving out his cell number, than he is open for having an affair, and that spells the end of your marriage as u know it. personally rather than suffer anymore i would get a divorce unless u have children and in that case i would insist he go to counciling. if he refused i would not expect any changes from him.
2016-05-21 23:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! First, I think deep down you knew some thing was up, Because you checked his email. You really need to confront him. But REMAIN Calm. Or he will try to turn this all around on you. Ask your self this also.... Will I ever trust him again? What the hell lead up to this? and What else is he doing? If you can answer your self , (truthfully) You need to search in side of your self to determine what is Best FOR YOU. Men will only do what we allow them to Do TO US. I wish you nothing but luck!
2006-11-20 06:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no need to even confront him. Just so you can hear some bull excuse of why he is doing it??? You already know that he is so the question is, do you want to be with a guy who is like that? Your MARRIED... You dont need to put up with that. Harmless talking to girls, looking , etc is one thing when they run into one at a store or something to check their ego still, but not that stuff. REDICULOUS!!!
2006-11-20 05:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by performancetool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the old saying 2 wrongs don't make it right. Now that you know he is cheating confront him talk it out. After all is said and done, do what's best for the relationship either stay or end it.
2006-11-20 05:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by RANDALL 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, years ago I got an e-mail from my boyfriend's wife. I had NO idea he was even married. She wasn't hateful or rude. She just said that she knew that I thought "David" was single. That she was absolutely furious with "David" but not me, because I didn't know. And the next time I spoke with "David" that I disclose that she and I had spoken. She and I spoke on the phone once after that e-mail.
I gave that man a very LOUD piece of my mind when I spoke to him next to dump his sorry a$$.
2006-11-20 05:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like your hubby isnt Mr Honest. Im sure that its more than phone calls. Good Luck!!! He will tell you what you want to hear, so be careful.
2006-11-20 05:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋