Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

My friend divorced her husband when she was 3 months pregnant. He had been cheating on her throughout their marriage, and she just found out then. She's due to have their baby next month, and he doesn't want any part of it.
She's currently dating an old friend who wants to help her with the baby-even if things don't work out he wants to raise the baby with her.
If she puts this new guy's name on the birth certificate (her ex will know about it), does he still have any rights? Would she and the new guy be better off if they married, too?

2006-11-20 05:02:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner has three children from a previous relationship. He and I have one child together. Lately I've been wanting one more child but I know he's not going to want anymore children. His last two kids were not planned. This man says he wants to spend the rest our lives together. What would you do? Leave him and be involved with some who does wants kids or stay with him and be happy with our child and his three kids?

2006-11-20 05:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by tobornot2b2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 05:02:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi!
my best friends 'so last-year' ex-boyfriend asked me out, I said yes and I REALLY want to tell her, but I'm scared she'll flip and get mad. But the thing is me and my 'boyfriend' broke up, and I want to tell her anyways, I feel like I should, or should I take it to the grave.... get back soon!

2006-11-20 05:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Lucy A 1 in Friends

Someone who is in a relationship but is interested/in love with someone else?

2006-11-20 05:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

i said something to my friend that i shouldn't have. and i don't want to justify it, becuz i know what i said was wrong. what could i say to my friend to make him know how sorry i am?

2006-11-20 05:01:00 · 2 answers · asked by Christ Follower 3 in Friends

2006-11-20 05:00:53 · 17 answers · asked by shawn r 1 in Family

Two of my friends do. Y'all are sick. I can't even eat them now without thinking dirty thoughts.

2006-11-20 05:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by Hello,It'sMe 3 in Singles & Dating

If i rekindle a relationship with my ex gf and the nite we were supposed to go out she accidentally (yes it was an accident) loses her phone and forgets it at her best friend's house does this mean anything about her and me or am i lookin into it too much? NOTE: I went and saw her the next day and she apologized and rescheduled a nite with me this weekend, but is she still tryin to hint to me or was losin her phone that day an accident?

2006-11-20 05:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Singles & Dating

whenever im in a new relationship, i fall head over heels but after a few weeks, i start disliking the person and i end the relationship. i'm only 18 years old and this has happened 4 time. im in a new relationship now and i wouldnt like that to happen again. what do u think i can do?

2006-11-20 05:00:20 · 4 answers · asked by Rocklander 3 in Singles & Dating

the ceremony part is pretty much self explainitory, but what order do things go in at the reception?

2006-11-20 05:00:04 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

My sister got detention and the teacher wants to talk to my parents, I don't understand though why. Here is what happened, the teacher set up a group assigment and broke the class up in groups of 5. Two of the kids that my sister was grouped with were black, and before you call me racist, the reason I mention their race is because they brought it up first. When they were in the group trying to gather info during class, the two black kids would not help at all, my sister and the other 2 kids kept telling them to help out and do their share, but they didn't want to. They also kept using horrible grammar when speaking in which my sister decided to correct one of them on his choice of words. My sister then went to the teacher and requested to be changed to a different work because of the two black kids lack of respect and work ethics. The teacher talked to both the kids and somehow they said they felt insulted and that she had been rude to them because they were black.

2006-11-20 04:59:26 · 28 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Family

My partner and I have been together and cohabitated for two years next month. We've known each other for almost seven years. We have a three year old child together. In the beginning of the year he asked me if I was ready to "take it to the next level" with him. We currently are attending relationship counseling to try and resolve communication problems we've been having. How long should a person wait to see if this guy really wants to take it to the next level before thinking he's just stringing me along?

2006-11-20 04:58:22 · 22 answers · asked by tobornot2b2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 04:57:47 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he thinks i suck up too much to the guidance office of the school,
i say he is wrong what should i say back to him?

2006-11-20 04:57:38 · 2 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Friends

What can I do to stop this behavior. I am worried it will affect my life when I become married.

2006-11-20 04:57:25 · 7 answers · asked by faros02 1 in Singles & Dating

like to impress her?

2006-11-20 04:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which is more annoying: the idiots who think they are pregnant because they had "unprtocted sex"; the a$$hole who asks the uncreative "what should I do ?" questions; the morons who actually try to promote their websites with questions or answers like "Hey has anybody checked out the site www.imadingleberry.com?" ; the fatsos who ask how to lose weight [duh...stop eating KFC four times a day and get off the computer, chubsy]; the religious cookoos who ram Jesus down your throat; the kids who wonder "Does he like me?" [the answer is NO, you're ugly. Now start studying]. Or any write-ins??

2006-11-20 04:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, im a guy and theres a girl in my biology class (which i only go to once a week) who id really like to be friends with but the problem is i only have one more class before the end of biology so whats the best way in one class to ask her to be friends?

o yea and i cant drive so i cant like ask her to go to the movies or sumthin with me.

2006-11-20 04:56:49 · 3 answers · asked by hiya 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 40 years old and very ill (possibly wheelchair ridden in the near future) and I have a dillema. I just started dating a guy (been out 2 times) who is really nice and we have tons in common. My family says I should wait to tell him just how sick I am but I think I should tell him BEFORE feeling get too deep. What do you think?

2006-11-20 04:55:40 · 7 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been caught lying numerous times throughout our relationship of a year about boyfriends/acquaintances and sleeping with them. I believe her numbers are much worse than what I know and she has tried to disguise it and hates talking about the past. She wants to eventually get marrried and have children but I don't want a tramp for a wife and mother of our children. What to do?

2006-11-20 04:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by mikey the pikey 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really know much about him but he's my friend...

Lets see, he lost his favourite knife, always wears hoodies and is addicted to my pet newt. I know it's kind of an odd question but I would really like to buy him something great.

He also was asking my best friend what I wanted and I had no idea haha...

2006-11-20 04:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as i look at the world i see people just want to fit in as a person,
the gay world seems like its taking over,
tell me something is it ok, would you want that setting round the children,
is it ok so them to want you to act like its ok, or should they live there lifes with out want us or you to say its ok

2006-11-20 04:55:11 · 36 answers · asked by robin r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After I told him that I like him he stop calling me. Before I told him he would call me everyday about 2 to 4 times a day. I called him the other day but he didnt call me back. I dont know what to do about it.

2006-11-20 04:54:18 · 10 answers · asked by Dibble 2 in Friends

2006-11-20 04:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Baby J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after two years of being together that u need a break for a few weeks to think about them without making it sound like your breaking up with them?

2006-11-20 04:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Singles & Dating

im a shy guy and i hate being shy i try not to be shy but for some reason my shyness take over me when it come talk to people girls specially, is their a way to not be shy or im stuck with it any suggestion oh great mighty ones...

2006-11-20 04:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by doofer_ice 1 in Singles & Dating

i went on my first date friday night to the movies and pizza. when he walked me to my door, i was going to kiss him on the cheek but my mom and his dad were watching.

2006-11-20 04:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a society where divorce is so common, why do people bother? Do you want to get divorced? Do you plan on it?? Do you take steps to prevent it?? How can you do "til death do us part" then quit a short while later?? I ask because I wonder how much thought people put into this, or do they just marry based on "feelings"??

2006-11-20 04:52:16 · 3 answers · asked by BaseballGrrl 6 in Singles & Dating

I mean you have a woman ask or answer a hot sexy topic.....and then you have what I think looks like a male in the picture...It kinda kills the effect..does anyone else agree?

2006-11-20 04:51:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating