She has been caught lying numerous times throughout our relationship of a year about boyfriends/acquaintances and sleeping with them. I believe her numbers are much worse than what I know and she has tried to disguise it and hates talking about the past. She wants to eventually get marrried and have children but I don't want a tramp for a wife and mother of our children. What to do?
2006-11-20 04:55:31 · 4 answers · asked by mikey the pikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it really matters what your girlfriend did before she was with you. The only thing that matters is how she is now. If she is really into you then I think that you shouldn't worry about her past. Besides, you probably (i'm only saying probably) have done some things in the past that you're not to proud of either (and they don't have to be necessarily sexual). You see the only thing that matters is how you guys truthfully feel about each other, and the bond that you already have. I'm just saying that everyone has done some messed up stuff before and it's not up to us to pass judgement on anyone. And, we all have insecurities that we have to overcome. Society plays off of peoples insecurities and exploits. Even if your buddies talk down on your girl, I bet they would probably try to holla at her also. So don't let the B.S. get you down. Put the moves on her man! Let her know who the man is (you know what I am saying)! Who said chivalry was dead! But remember these last words that a wise man once said, "If she don't want to be saved don't save her."
2006-11-20 05:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by mybrother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really know everything about her that you want to before marriage become the topic of interest.....Weather you know it or not, statiscally, some marriages end because the partner did not know the other partner as well as they thought they did in the beginning...
So I would try talking to her again about whatever you want to know, if she doesnt really like talking about the past then red flags should go up...Also, try getting her parents to tell you some things about her if things are serious among you two...You'd be surprised about the things parents would tell you, especially if you are serious about it and have a good relationship with the parents
2006-11-20 05:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her loaded and see how she acts around others usually the true self will come out after a few hours.You know the old saying treat H**ES like Queens and Queens like Ho**S
2006-11-20 05:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky Lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her what you know about her past and expalin her that you can live with a women like that
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2006-11-20 05:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋