Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

i have known my g/f for about 7 months now. we met at a baseball match.at first she seemed like a typical normal outgoing gal who liked being around me. but just recently i hve noticed her behaviour has changed towards me, every time we got out at weekends she gets drunk and wants to fight me after, she's scratched my face, she's pulled my hair so hard she nearly left me with a bald patch,last week she kicked me between my legs so hard i was walking with my legs apart for a week after. even in bed she uses violence ,she orders me to be submissive and let her domintate me.she handcuffed me and blind folded me and starting whipping me with my belt, i have just discovered she is on hard drugs namely cocaine,is her behavious acceptable or should i leave her before my life is in danger?pls im realy worried,someone help me?

2006-11-20 04:25:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 04:24:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an average woman and I love my body. I work out everyday and I eat a healthy diet. I watched a documentary recently called "THIN". These girls were so skinny it was sickly. How do they possibly think guys think that is attractive. I am so happy with my body and what I have. I try to take good care of it. I want to know, do you guys out there find it more attractive for a "SKINNY" girl or a GIRL who is healthy and happy.

2006-11-20 04:23:58 · 24 answers · asked by dancerchik2106 1 in Singles & Dating

So Friday my girl friend broke up with me cuz i accused her of cheating on me with her ex so i went out got drunk rolled my buddies girl firends two day old truck got a DWI and im so lost on what to do

2006-11-20 04:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by Lab Runner 5 in Singles & Dating

My good friend/bf got promoted in the JROTC. and I wanna give him an congrants gift but I have no-clue on what to give him???

We both can't drive (we're both 17). I know something he would love but my parents would kill me :P

2006-11-20 04:23:29 · 4 answers · asked by melanie 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night I was watching intervention on TV. The husband and wife split on and get on with their new lives. One of their daughters is completely heartbroken and both parents miss this. Fast forward a few years and she is on meth and stripping to make a living. Here is a link to the show:

http://www.tv.com/intervention/show/34392/summary.html

I think there are some situations where divorce is a legitamate final decision but I also think this is done sometimes for selfish reasons and not necessary.

Work hard on your marraige and please your mate in all ways. Put your spouse above all else and if you don't know what they want ask. If you can not be fulfilled together at least agree to have a peacefull house for your children and when they are out of the house then seperate. If there is abuse, adultry or addiction then yes divorce may be what you must do. If not try to make it work and put your wants aside for a few years for the sake of your children.

What do you think?

2006-11-20 04:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 04:23:04 · 7 answers · asked by Yasene S 1 in Singles & Dating

last time i saw him he lived here in cleveland tennessee. i was working at maytag and i think he was too. he gave me a gold chained necklace. he said him and rachel willis had a baby boy together. him and rachel aren't together anymore. matthew has green eyes and he is 5'5 i think. he had brown hair but i think he shaved his head i'm not for sure. i think i saw him at a gas station a while back. his dad's name is larry duckett and his brother is travis duckett. matthew and travis used to go to the cleveland community center here in cleveland tennessee and went swimming there. my maiden name is amanda cranfield. i need to get in touch with matthew as soon as possible. can you help.

2006-11-20 04:22:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if u want to tell a guy that u like him but u dont want everybody else to know....... should i like pass a note or something???? i already tried passing him a note at the beginning of august but he said he doesnt write notes bak but when i talk to him he seems perfectly fine with everything...... other people think hes a jack *** but i do not know why......i think he just wants to be happy but he has expectations to live up to what should i do???

2006-11-20 04:22:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend asked me out a week ago. He doesn't want people to know about us. I try to say hi but he doesn't say it back. I want his phone number but he has no home phone and he doesn't want to give me his cell#. I really like him. I care too.... Is there something wrong with this. I'm not sure?

2006-11-20 04:21:54 · 23 answers · asked by Tsuki 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old and I met this really beautiful girl we hung out for a while and she is really interesting. One possible issue though. I found out she is only 17! She graduated early ans is going to college now though. What should I do is she too young?

2006-11-20 04:21:22 · 14 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe in God, have faith but I do not want to get involved with any kind of religious institution...How can I approach this dilemma with my girlfriend without hurting her feelings or even how can I make sure she does not become a religious fanatic. I have heard this church she wants to join has these especial "rules" you have to follow. Oh God, help!

2006-11-20 04:21:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 04:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a boy at school I really like. I wish I never dumped him. I want him back but how do i approach this matter?

2006-11-20 04:20:46 · 15 answers · asked by Lucy Chik 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 04:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by KRISTINA C 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I want to take our relationship to the next level. We love each other very much and we want to make love. This is the first time for the both of us and while we are very knowledgeable about sex.... we just want to be completely safe. What condoms are best and do spermicide ones really work? And when engaging in oral, how can both of us be safe? I want protection too....

2006-11-20 04:19:19 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Spirit♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I looking for new friends from UK, for to learn english. I'm italian and I live in Milan. Write me for e-mail or yahoo messenger

2006-11-20 04:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

HE HAD ASKED MY BEST FRIEND OUT WELL KINDA BECUZ SHE PUT IT AS IF HE WERE TRYING OT ASK HER OUT SHE TOLD ME THAT HE WAZ TALKING TO HER AND TOLD HER THAT Y DIDNT THEY GET TOGETHER ISNT THAT LIKE ASKING HER OUT??? I WAZ SO CONFUSED AND DIDNT KNOW WHO TO BELIVE CUZ HE WAZ MY BOYFRIEND AND SHE WAZ MY BEST FRIEND I DIDNT KNOW WHO TO BELIVE AND NOW HIS SISTER DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO ME CUZ THAT WAZ HER BROTHER AND SHE SAID IF ANYTHING HAPPENED TO US THAT SHE WOULD STILL TALK TO ME AND SHE DOESNT EVEN TALK TO ME ... WHAT DID I DO WRONG?????

2006-11-20 04:18:02 · 7 answers · asked by VERONICA L 1 in Friends

so my bf works about 45min from where he lives, but his family lives there. he told me his sis had a school thing. Come to find out she did, but it was in a different town. closer to where i live. he didn't invite me to go. but he took clothes to clean up at his moms when he had to drive passed his house to go the her school thing. so do u think he went or just told me he did. i don't know. what do u think?

2006-11-20 04:18:01 · 11 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Family

I caught my husband watching porn behind my back and at first it hurt me. But then I figured I would see what it was all about and I began to watch it with him. Now I watch it with him and I have to say I kind of like it. Is this wrong of me?

2006-11-20 04:16:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well my boyfriend called me asking to get some cheifs tickets.So I was like yea that would be fun so we could take a break from work, well for him and my boss Paulyn, a female.Then he turns around and says everyone is going to go scouting for some tickets.I got mad because he never intvited em but her and then changed the story around.And Paulyn flirts with him all the time,but he says its because he is trying to be cool with our bosses so he can slide by with stuff....I am getting fed up, I give him all my money that I make, and when I ask him for money he says for what.And all he ever does is play video games and watch football....and the game is on thanksgiving.....what do i do??do i let him go or give him an ultimatum??

2006-11-20 04:16:33 · 23 answers · asked by brooke_grey 1 in Singles & Dating

if you run without a bra on...do your boobs sway back and forth like in a neat rhythmic pattern.....or do they juts wiggle and bounce all over?????

2006-11-20 04:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best age for the father20s, 30s, 40, ++++ for the health of the child?

2006-11-20 04:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy. I had a crush on him earlier for 6yrs. Then it became infatuation. Now I love him. He recently asked me out. Yesterday during one of our heart to heart talks he told me that he smokes.

I have always hated smoking and those who do it. I am trying to get my grandpa off it. So should I leave him or stay with him and change my views on the matter? He said he likes what he is doing and dosen't plan to stop. I still haven't asked him to and do somehing drastic like ask him to stop on a promise on me. He loves me too.

What should I do?

2006-11-20 04:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by naughtypeeves36 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 04:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by rosaybill 1 in Weddings

Okay here is the deal my sister is in "love" with my best friend's brother, who is totally playing her like a fool. I did my best to coach her in "playing it smart" but she is taking his bait. The worst thing is he is so obvious in playing her, that the teachers at school know his game!!

2006-11-20 04:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by Vamphyre 1 in Family

However, our problem is our eight yr. old daught. What can we do about her on days off from school? When she is off it is hard to have the time we need for our intimate time and we don't want to negeclt her.

2006-11-20 04:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by turtle3fish 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Who is more important? Best friends or boyfriends?

2006-11-20 04:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Friends

it was her 19th birthday 11-17 she knows i like her i told her 2 weeks ago than she said she just need a friend now. she just got out a 2 year relationship were they were going to marry but her ex broke it off cause he was unhappy. they been apart for maybe 2-4 months. we had a little to drink not much about 2 shots when it started she told me to cuddle her which i have done before. than she told to mess with her neck lick it and stuff that lead to making out. after a good half hour she gets up and says sorry. she not ready right. that what she sorry for right? what should i do now? what should i say? when should call?

2006-11-20 04:14:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend tells you that he has quote "put the brakes on" in your relationship, does that necessarily mean that there is someone else? He told me he wants to take a break because he is not happy with his life right now and that he wasn't sure if it was the relationship that was making him unhappy or if it was something else. What do I do???

2006-11-20 04:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Singles & Dating