Ok well my boyfriend called me asking to get some cheifs tickets.So I was like yea that would be fun so we could take a break from work, well for him and my boss Paulyn, a female.Then he turns around and says everyone is going to go scouting for some tickets.I got mad because he never intvited em but her and then changed the story around.And Paulyn flirts with him all the time,but he says its because he is trying to be cool with our bosses so he can slide by with stuff....I am getting fed up, I give him all my money that I make, and when I ask him for money he says for what.And all he ever does is play video games and watch football....and the game is on thanksgiving.....what do i do??do i let him go or give him an ultimatum??
2006-11-20 04:16:33 · 23 answers · asked by brooke_grey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even bother with the ultimatum, get rid of this loser/user before he breaks you. Is this the type of relationship you want? Don't you know that you deserve better then some guy who is taking all your money and probably cheating on you with your boss?
2006-11-20 04:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That's a mess! How serious of action you take depends on how serious your relationship is with him. He is disrespecting you. GREATLY! He has no right or reason to be carrying on this way with ANY other female when he's in a relationship. Let alone his boss! I think you have every right to be fed up. The ultimatum you give this guy should be broader than just whether or not he is going to go to the game or not. It should be more about whether or not he's going to be your boyfriend and ACT like your boyfriend or not be your boyfriend at all.
You're giving this guy your money?
Words of wisdom on your relationship:It looks like nothing at all would be so much better than something not so great!
2006-11-20 04:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be with a guy who makes you jealous and upset and plays video games and watches football all day? You can stop giving him your money and find a guy who is successful in his job due to hard work, not messing with the boss.
2006-11-20 04:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes using you, and he should not include his boss if she is flirting with him like that. tell him how you feel about her, and tell him that he either has his eye on her (which is wrong) or he is just feeding her fire (which is also wrong). stop giving him any money. that just makes you feel like someone's momma. he needs to learn how to work for his own stuff. give him an ultimatum, and then let him go or keep him based on the sacrifices he is willing to make for the relationship, it sounds like you have already made some, it's his turn.
2006-11-20 04:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beleive me girl, no matter what the situation, everyone has the right to be upset over whatever they want. If the situation hurt you, then you have the right to be upset. Your boyfriend would probably be hurt if you were going with some guy who obviosly had the hots for you. He does sound a bit immature to me though. Maybe be upset but try and move on.
2006-11-20 04:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way dude, this sounds like he's trying to slide one on you, He needs to respect your feelings about (the office Harlot) Paulyn He needs to be realistic, your his girl not his sister or friend he can call up and say hey im going to this game with my girlfirend can you hook me up with tickets. If he's going to put yalls realationshio on the line to get some type of promotion, them hes not worth it is he, dont let him play you, he needs to appreciate you ok, and watch the breakup with jen and vince, its sounds corny but its so true about relationships guys are real biggoofballs, maybe you need to talk to him and invite Paulyn over for thanksgiving, and show her whats really going on. I would even try to hook her up with some guy friend of yours. If all else fails, two can play at this game. Put your game face on girl and have a good thanksgiving!!!!
2006-11-20 04:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this fella is taking you for a ride. Especially when he wants you to hunt for tickets for him and his female boss to go to a ball game? Give him all your money but when you need some he wants to know what for? I'd bag this bonehead for someone who realizes that a relationship means more than what he seems to believe it does. Schmoozing the female boss so he "can get away with stuff" sounds likes b/s to me. If I were you I'd let him go, let him go for good.
2006-11-20 04:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by tracysw100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your saying that he asked his female boss out to a football game and is not including you???? No, this isnt right. This is a date. And you shouldnt be giving him all your money. get your own account and pay the bills you are responsible for with that. You shouldnt have to answer to him.
2006-11-20 04:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm only 15 so i don't know much about this stuff but the way it sounds ur bf i doesn't want to try in the relationship you have a right do with what you want and wen you want it if he don't like it o well i think you should find some one who will care for you and do anything for you at any time with out word it up to you if you love this guy and if you dont
2006-11-20 04:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by jd.rebel4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie life is too short to waste on people who don't respect you and love is a big part of respect. You should love your self more enough to not let someone treat you like that. Your heart doesn't lie and you know it's telling you to get away from him. If he truly loves and respects you than he wouldn't ever do anything to hurt or threaten your relationship, so quit wasting your precious time and find someone who will really love you.
2006-11-20 04:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by SHEILA N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋