i have known my g/f for about 7 months now. we met at a baseball match.at first she seemed like a typical normal outgoing gal who liked being around me. but just recently i hve noticed her behaviour has changed towards me, every time we got out at weekends she gets drunk and wants to fight me after, she's scratched my face, she's pulled my hair so hard she nearly left me with a bald patch,last week she kicked me between my legs so hard i was walking with my legs apart for a week after. even in bed she uses violence ,she orders me to be submissive and let her domintate me.she handcuffed me and blind folded me and starting whipping me with my belt, i have just discovered she is on hard drugs namely cocaine,is her behavious acceptable or should i leave her before my life is in danger?pls im realy worried,someone help me?
2006-11-20 04:25:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her now beofre it's too late, she sounds like a psychopath, the drugs must be getting to her, try to get her to see a drugs councillor, if that don't work leave her, as you will regret it for the rest of your life thats if your still alive,
2006-11-20 04:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems very messed up and out of control, in my opinion you should leave now, domestic violence does not just happen to women. Kicking you between the legs is in no way shape or form normal in a relationship! She might need help, but you have to decide whether you want to be around until she agrees to get it. It's no reflection on your character if you decide to leave her, you should not feel guilty.
2006-11-20 04:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nikita21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are male or female. It sounds like you are in an abusive relationship. This girl sounds like she has some bad issues that you shouldn't drag yourself through any further. I would have suggested talking to her about it, but she's on drugs. You can't reason with someone on drugs! She very clearly is too violent for your liking. Break-up with her!
2006-11-20 04:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Teresa Dagger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a doubt in your mind about her behavior then there is a problem...abuse like that is wrong and she obviously doesn't your feeling or interests at heart... i seriously think this relationship is NOT good at all. your going to get yourself caught up in something you'll regret for the rest of yourl ife...not only is she hurting herself shes hurting you...it may be hard to leave her but think about yourself...surely you don't want that kind of relationship especially when there is so many other women out there?
2006-11-20 04:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by b a b y : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is on drugs she may need help.Was she on drugs when everything was fine? if not i think thats your problem.
If you can help her get of drugs and back to being happy go for it.
If she is not willing to give up the drugs after help then YES i would walk away.
2006-11-20 04:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her tell her she needs professional help and be patient with her. She might of had a violent past or the drugs are affecting her badly.
If you do not love her, run for your life and don't look back.
2006-11-20 04:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would leave. If she is already acting this way after 7months then who knows what she will do as time goes on. I know you care a great deal for her but I promise their is a prefect girl out there for you and I don't think she is that one for you.
2006-11-20 04:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl has really bad issues, you could either help her get some professional help or leave her, depends how much you like her. but dont forget even though you are a man, this is still domestic violence and you should seek professional help yourself, good luck xxx
2006-11-20 04:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave her she sounds like she needs help but for your own safety just leave and send her a letter explaining why
(just in case she flips out and tries to stop you)
2006-11-20 05:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Beat her @ss.
2 Kick her to the curb.
2006-11-20 04:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋