Who is more important? Best friends or boyfriends?
2006-11-20 04:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ME I AM BETTER THAN BOTH
2006-11-20 04:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Pahayman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you and how much you love this guy and what happened that made you bring this question up. I have a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and if my best friend ever disrespected her he wouldn't be able to finish the last word in his sentence before I lay him flat on the ground. If you were given an ultimatum by your boyfriend whether to be with him or your best friend then you have to consider why he may be bringing that up. Is your best friend a guy that you had a fling or relationship with in the past? Is she a girl with a bad influence? or is your boyfriend that jealous and he hasn't been given a reason by you to be that jealous or give that ultimatum? You have to consider it all and figure out what's fair, logical and best for you because it all depends on the situation.
2006-11-20 12:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Nick R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation...like if the best friend didn't like the boyfriend then the best friend would have to understand that u love or like that person cuz if they were a best friend then they would understand and respect....now if the boyfriend don like the best friend then he would have to understand that u have friends that he might not like and he has friends u don like but u would have to deal with it b/c u both are gonna have ur own friends. I hope that makes sense. Anyway they would both have to deal with it u shouldn't have to pick one b/c u love both...if one says oh hey pick one then u would have to pick the one that didn't make u choose cuz that choosing thing is babyish ur gonna have different people that don like certain people that u hang with....but like if u have a best friend that u have been friends with for years and ur boyfriend jus comes out and says oh hey i don like her/him don be friends with her/him that would be controling and tellin u wat to do basically there would be no point....
2006-11-20 12:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by BurgNavigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question, it all depends on your point of referance and basis of comparison.
for me both can be very important, and it is up to you to make that crucial decision, and no one else , as they will not have to live with the concequences of the decision , only you and those around you !
in my opinion best friends (if they truely are best friends), are important in your life, and boyfriends may become more than boyfriends, but then again they may be just passing thru ?, and if all else fails and your over 28, im me and maybe we can talk ?
2006-11-20 12:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends I suppose on your age. If you are younger than say 20 I'd have to say Best Friends as the relationship may not last. However, if you are 30 or over than I'd say that your partner should be number one and actually should be your best friend also.
2006-11-20 12:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends
2006-11-20 12:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the relationship with this guy if u think that you cant be boyfriend and girlfriend then just be best-friends.
2006-11-20 12:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really put a rating on this dear. They both have a different love, so keep them in their places. Treating one better then the other may cause you to lose.......
2006-11-20 12:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, sometimes best friend understands your situation and give room to get on with your boy friend or advice you regarding your problem with your boy friend. rarely it works vice versa too.
2006-11-20 12:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends
2006-11-20 12:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by collinsnba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends are forever but boyfrie.. fade.
lol
2006-11-20 12:17:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋