I caught my husband watching porn behind my back and at first it hurt me. But then I figured I would see what it was all about and I began to watch it with him. Now I watch it with him and I have to say I kind of like it. Is this wrong of me?
2006-11-20 04:16:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do u feel that it is wrong to be watching porn? that is the question that really matters.if you dont think so then there is not a problem. what you do behind close doors is your buisness. i wonder if you feel that it is a bit wrong because you are questioning yourself by asking this question. i think that what you and YOUR husband do is between you both, aslong as it is with the man you married. Porn can be a good thing it can intenseify your relationship and your sex. think of it this way you may learn new things and you may turn him on by watching it with him.
2006-11-20 04:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by packin_mag44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female. and i have other way of seeing things. I don't think its right for a men to see porn when he has only ten days of been married. Come on why he would see porn when he has you. They are some women that dosen't care, but they are others that get offend it when they do. I don't have the problem,but i think he wouldn't like it if it was the other way around, because he would feel less than a man. I think you should talk to him. If it bothers you let him know. I think thats the best you can do, talk to him. If he see only porn were only women are them thats kind of weird, but the best advise. Let him know what you think and what you feel. Best regards. And other thing. Not only because man are man or boys are boys, or other girls don't mind that their husbands see porn dosen't mean you have to be the same, and accept what other says. Its what you belief, and only you would know what to do. Hope this helps again, Everyone thinks differently, and feel differently. Respect is what makes a good relationship.
2016-05-21 22:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of couples watch porn together, although they may not get to see the end. Ha! It's a healthy part of any relationship providing both parties realize that what they are watching is not reality and that these people are acting. But some porn has actually helped spice up many relationship that is getting a bit stagnate.
2006-11-20 04:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definetely feel a little intruded on b/c he did go behind your back.. BUT MOST WOMEN WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH THAT... honestly, if you are ok with that.. its just fine... most of the time it spices things up in a marriage... I never caught my husband doing it.. its something we wanted to do "together".. if its not together.. I wouldn't like it.. we weren't created to fantasize about other people.. we are married to our husbands for a reason.. they are our soulmates.. so anyhow as long as you like it and are down right ok with it... HEK NO THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT!! need any advice on good ones?? hehehe good luck :)
2006-11-20 04:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous Wife 24F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. Nothing wrong with watching porn with him or without him. Who are you hurting? No one. You are a person with the freedom to choose to do whatever you like in privacy. Without judgment, live and let live...different strokes for different folks. It's all good...enjoy!
2006-11-20 04:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong. I look at it this way if my boyfriend (in my case) is going to watch porn then I want him to look at other naked ladies in front of me or with me. Plus it adds spice to your relationship and you can do things you see on the tape. No not wrong of you you are doing what other women wish they could do.
2006-11-20 04:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong at all!! It's healthy to share common interests! Many women enjoy porn; there's nothing wrong with that!!
2006-11-20 04:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by jackie_jackie_bo_backie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it opens up your relationship and gives you more to share and experiment. you can be happy that at least he's at home watching it instead of being out with another woman. be happy that he is faithful to you. watch once with him yes it will be awkward but you'll get into probably too. just go into it with a open mind okay? I'm sure that he would never want you to do anything your uncomfortable with.
2006-11-20 04:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong at all. I watch it with my husband and we both enjoy it. Although we end up hearing it more than watching it, it is fun.
2006-11-20 05:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by aisha3821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see nothing wrong with watching porn with your husband ,you will know what he likes , and that should keep the fire in your love life,try something new.
2006-11-20 04:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer_bgi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋