so my bf works about 45min from where he lives, but his family lives there. he told me his sis had a school thing. Come to find out she did, but it was in a different town. closer to where i live. he didn't invite me to go. but he took clothes to clean up at his moms when he had to drive passed his house to go the her school thing. so do u think he went or just told me he did. i don't know. what do u think?
2006-11-20 04:18:01 · 11 answers · asked by for_runner0 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and he never picks up his phone on Sat
2006-11-20 04:22:09 · update #1
You have to ask yourself if this was a one-time event, or has there been a pattern of him slipping out like this? A one-time event is meaningless- it's possible his sister didn't mention the school. If he has, or continues to do things like this, you'll need to decide if your relationship is in trouble.
2006-11-20 04:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever given you reason to doubt him before? Does he lie often? If so, then this may be a lie. If he has never given you any reason to question him before then maybe it was just quicker to get ready at his mom's house or maybe he was going with his mom. Honestly I think you're overreacting, but just keep your ears and eyes open.
2006-11-20 12:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are overreacting. Just because you didn't get invited to a family thing doesn't mean anything, he might just not be comfortable with you meeting his whole family quite yet. Give it time.
2006-11-20 12:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are over reacting and if you can't trust your boyfriend - he's not worth having. when you have any kind of friend, you have to trust them. but, it might not be your boyfriend, it may be you - not being able to trust anyone. look inside yourself, and ask, why can't i trust? when you find that answer, you'll understand more of what is going on around you with your friends. you'll have a better life, fill with contentment.
2006-11-20 12:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I won't think any thing about. He more then likely want to ride with or follow them there. That way when he got there he won't have to look for them. They could all go in together.
2006-11-20 12:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you got a compilcating thing going on just put all the pieces together
2006-11-20 12:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you need to chill,you will run him off for sure with this kind of crap,nobody wants to be smothered,im sure there will be other times he doesn't invite you.just don't take it personally,everybody needs their own space
2006-11-20 12:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are over reacting but if it happens again, investigate further.
2006-11-20 12:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to think something is wrong but dont over react it is ok
2006-11-20 12:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask your boyfriend.
2006-11-20 12:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋