Hi!
my best friends 'so last-year' ex-boyfriend asked me out, I said yes and I REALLY want to tell her, but I'm scared she'll flip and get mad. But the thing is me and my 'boyfriend' broke up, and I want to tell her anyways, I feel like I should, or should I take it to the grave.... get back soon!
2006-11-20 05:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Lucy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The fact of the matter is, the truth always outs. If you keep this fact from your best friend, she will be extremely hurt and furious with you WHEN she finds out (and she will sooner or later). You should tell her now, since you and her ex haven't really done anything to be ashamed of. If you and her ex do decide to continue your relationship, at least you would have told her before anything serious happens.
2006-11-20 05:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kurt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/kxiAF
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-23 07:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, why the hell did you say yes?. How many friends you got? How often you change them? How often you change your boyfriend?
EXACTLY!
Boyfriends are for two weeks, three months, a year, whatever! Friends are for ALOT longer. hate to preach but I have had this done to me, my ex best mate snogged my ex and it wasn't that it was him being with someone else that hurt, it was the fact it was HER!
2006-11-20 07:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a code among friends that you are not suppose to date a best friends ex, not matter the reason.
if I were you I'd tell her before somebody else does, I reckon that she might be a little annoyed with you, but if you explain to her she might be okay with it.
2006-11-20 07:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, ask her. Make sure she feels like she can tell you she's not okay with it if she isn't, and if she does have a problem with it then don't do it. If you know for a fact that she still has feelings for him then just don't do it at all. Your friends come first no matter what.
2006-11-20 05:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If she gets mad, it your own fault. You deserve what you get for going after you "best" friends ex
2006-11-20 05:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there, girlfriends x's and girlfriends husbands are just not worth the grief.............you said that you are scared that she will flip and get mad, so sounds like you know her well, and what she will do. cheers good luck and god bless
2006-11-20 05:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. she might be mad but if she is a true friend she will get over it you are allowed to date!! bite the bullet good luck x
2006-11-20 05:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by crystal clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now, before she finds out herself.there are few things worse than the look of incredible hurt that she'll have if you don't.believe me,i know.
2006-11-20 06:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by dylysh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her if she finds out by herself then she will go mad at you.
2006-11-20 05:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋