as i look at the world i see people just want to fit in as a person,
the gay world seems like its taking over,
tell me something is it ok, would you want that setting round the children,
is it ok so them to want you to act like its ok, or should they live there lifes with out want us or you to say its ok
2006-11-20 04:55:11 · 36 answers · asked by robin r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being a good person is more important then your sexual orientation.
Don't sweat it. It's nobodys business what you do behind closed doors.
2006-11-20 05:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by John L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there's anything wrong with what people choose to do with their lives if they want to live a certain way or not but of course- it's inappropiate and children do ask certain questions that are hard to aswer. For example_ i went to disney a month a go and it was GAY DAY IN ANAHEIM CALIFORNIA and all gay people wore red shirts that day. I went with all my bbrothers and their kids- about 12 kids total and about 5 adults and the kids asked questions and it was hard to explain to them that they have different preferences and that it's thier choice- they seemed confused that one could choose to be with another of the same sex and the world to be ok with it. Children won't understand until they're old enough and that's what makes it diffucult for people who are gay to be accepted. I don't think it's worng but- it's not normal either. There's something genetically different when a man feels like he's more femine or a woman feels more attracted to a girl rather than a guy. That's a hormone disfunction or lack of certain hormones so of course it's not normal but- it doens't mean it's not ok or wrong
2006-11-20 05:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok to be gay, but not many people are that open to this gay situation now in days. Personally, I would love to have gay people around me or my children as long as they are loving, caring, and have respect as far as when being affectionate to each other. Whether it is a straight or gay couple, I would not like for my children to see other people kissing each other or anything stronger than that simply because they are too small and don't understand those things. Many people say that god created a man and a woman not a man and a man or vise versa. But there are so many people out there that pretend to be something they are not and they still look normal so to me any gay couple would look normal to me but maybe when I see you down the street I might just look twice but not because I don't like you but just because it is not rare. Just be normal and have respect for other people, just like you would like for others to respect you and I don't agree when people say you guys should not show yourselves love in public but there are limits.
Good Luck!
2006-11-20 05:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I fall into the minority of intelligent folks who don't believe this is ok. (My IQ measures in the 140's on several tests)
I certainly don't hate on anyone who chooses or believes they are wired to be gay, but I do believe they choose to act that way.
Just like heterosexual people choose if they are going act out sexually, so do folks who claim a homosexual preference.
I don't think we should outlaw homosexuality, and I don't think the church should be so worried about this when 50% of those who claim to be Christians are divorcing. I feel the church has more to worry about with it's own flock, that it doesn't need to look at the 1-10% of the population who claims a homosexual preference.
I'm not afraid that my daughter will become gay. I don't want someone telling her being gay is right. I want to teach her what I believe, that it's wrong, but she should still treat gays with the same respect and love that she wants to recieve.
I want to teach her that just because we don't agree, doesn't mean that we hate. Dissent is not hate, nor should we feel the need to hate for feel hated just because someone disagrees with us.
2006-11-20 05:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its ok to be gay. But if you are thats your life and I will not hate you or dislike you at all . I have meet alot of gay people and they are the same as anyone else. But if my kids were gay I would be really upset but I would still love them no matter what . But im not saying im accepting it at all its just I love my kids no matter what and I dont want to loose them over something like this .
2006-11-20 05:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon who you are. There is a lot of debate on this subject and a lot of strong emotions. For the people who say that it is against the Bible and Christianity I say the Bible says that we are not to judge, lest we be judged. I have a son-in-law who was raised by his gay uncle and his partner and he is fine and heterosexual. My daughter and him have 3 children. In my opinion you should be whomever you are on the inside and not worry about other peoples opinions. As for those who say that it is not Biblical point out other things that heterosexuals do. Like living together, having sex before marriage, not keeping the sabbath day holy etc. They should get the picture and mind their own business after that. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 05:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is OK. And it's natural too. About 10% of all animals are gay as well. And why wouldn't it be OK to have children? Many children today are raised by only one parent, and they end up to be perfectly normal too. Besides, a lot of 'perfect' families (with a mom and a dad) appear to be unable to raise their children.
2006-11-20 05:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by lieselot h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok to be gay. We should do what make us happy. Being gay is the way them born or like. It shouldnt bother anybody else. It is another life style in the world. Im not gay but it doesnt mean eveybody else should not be gay. So I think it is totally ok to be gay.
2006-11-20 05:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by bsk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm torn on it. As a Christian I must object. Living your life in a manner that offends God, is not good for your eternal soul. As a dude, I must say no, because ewewewewew. As a human being, I say everyone has a right to love who and how they want. As a thinker, I say it's natures way of limiting our over crowded populations. Two gays cannot conceive (and don't bring up sperm banks). As a parent I think it's wrong for gay couples to raise children, because you need a mother AND a father's influence.
So there's more negatives to positives, so I'd say it's wrong to be gay.
2006-11-20 05:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, Homosexual people are trying to make everyone think that being gay is ok but no mater how many people say its right, it will never be right. Its the same with premarital sex, cheating on your spouse, incest. It is wrong, always has been, always will be. We have gotten away from having morals and want to fit in so we say that its ok because everyone is doing it. Its still wrong.
2006-11-20 05:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by kstfas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is perfectly fine to be gay.... when it comes to having children in the mix of that it doesn't really matter because they have friends and school and whatever else to get their hands on to learn about that anyways.... When my daughter grows up and starts having relationships I'm going to make sure she knows that it doesn't matter what anyone one else thinks as long as she's happy and also let her know that its ok to love who ever she wants regardless of the sex of that person...
2006-11-20 05:03:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋