long story short: my on/off ex of 1.5 yrs (we were serious @ one point) finally broke it off and found someone new.this was right after it was announced that i found someone new.we both rebounded and that was obvious.however when i broke up with the rebound guy and went to my ex's apt and showed up crying. he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore. and then i told him that i wanted time away from him and he was devastated and said: "nono let's be friends! how about fri?"... which confused me. but nevertheless, i didn't talk to him for 5 days and he told our mutual friend that he was depressed but didn't know why. i got worried and gave in, and ended up having dinner with him. he hugged me and said: "i missed you SOO much." he also kept staring at me and said i looked good. then when we went to hang out with a mutual friend, he kept bringing up the past and calling me his old petnames. i still like him. what is he doing?
2006-11-20 05:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing games. He feels comfortable with you and secure but he does not want to commit to you. He will not make a decision as long as you remain his crutch. As long as he thinks he can keep you around he will keep leaning on you.
I would say that it is time to leave him and move on. I would suggest that you not maintain a friendship with him. That would not be good for you or him.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-20 05:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses you, he is the type of guy, who cannot see you with someone else, i am pretty sure that if you didnt tell him you had found someone else, he wouldnt have gone and looked...but since you had moved on (to his eyes) he wanted to show you that he also did, (he hasnt)...its hard to picture your ex from a long relationship with someone else. give him a lil time, and talk to him about the way you guys feel about each other...he brings up the past, b/ c he wants YOU to remember how happy you guys were back then
2006-11-20 13:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by BiggBoss05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously still cares for you and is just as confused as your are. He's not doing anything, he's still in love with you and he's trying to come to grips with his renewed feelings.
The question is, can you put behind you the problems that originally destroyed your relationship? Are you willing to mature beyond those? If not, forget it. As soon as you get back together those will resurface.
2006-11-20 13:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably misses you :)...if you want him back i would do it now before he offically gets over you and finds someone else. - but don't be demanding or it'll remind him why you guys broke up. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-20 13:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he misses you too!
2006-11-20 13:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to sleep with you. Don't fall for it!!!
2006-11-20 13:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋