long story short: my on/off ex of 1.5 yrs (we were serious @ one point) finally broke it off and found someone new.this was right after it was announced that i found someone new.we both rebounded and that was obvious.however when i broke up with the rebound guy and went to my ex's apt and showed up crying. he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore. and then i told him that i wanted time away from him and he was devastated and said: "nono let's be friends! how about fri?"... which confused me. but nevertheless, i didn't talk to him for 5 days and he told our mutual friend that he was depressed but didn't know why. i got worried and gave in, and ended up having dinner with him. he hugged me and said: "i missed you SOO much." he also kept staring at me and said i looked good. then when we went to hang out with a mutual friend, he kept bringing up the past and calling me his old petnames. i still like him. what is he doing?
2006-11-20 05:08:22 · 14 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Using you as back-up tail.
2006-11-20 05:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to this old guy like he's testing the water to see if you will respond to these remarks from days of old. Great that you were able to recognize that you were on rebound after your breakup. But you and your ex should sit down and have a good heart to heart and discuss where you both want to head as far as relationship and commitment are concerned. You need to also address reasons for previous break up and ensure that they have been resolved before moving on into this relationship again or previous concerns will again rear its ugly head. Best of luck to you and I do hope that you two can work through things and come to a satisfactory result for your future.
2006-11-20 05:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants the best of both worlds...the fact that it was on again off again shows that you two are still in this emotional rollercoaster pattern. Best advice is to break it off clean, and have no contact with him for at least 3-6 months. After that look him up and see if you can be friends without feeling romantically attracted to each other.
2006-11-20 05:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by ajwpoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was either mad at you when you came to his apartment, or he was playing a game with you when he saw he was in a position where he had the upper hand. but it sounds like he has an internel dilema and he isnt sure exactly how he feels about you, only time can tell, so proceed with caution! good luck!
2006-11-20 05:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Matt E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when I heard him say--- "he told me that he was in a new relationship and didn't really care and didn't really wanna hang out anymore" it would have been over. That's because I don't allow people to mess with my head, they way he's messing with yours.
2006-11-20 05:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
substitute into there alcohol in touch? possibly he only forgot or only lost it. or perhaps he's an a55hole. you notice, women individuals make it so problematical for adult adult males that we sometime play the type interest. We make a predetermined guess on the initiating of the night and notice who can get the main numbers. He who has the main on the top of the night, wins the money!!!
2016-11-25 21:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious u two still love each other.. he doesnt know how to deal with what has happened between u two.. u need to sit down and talk with him and both of u just need to tell each other how u feel and see what happens from thier..
2006-11-20 05:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he still loves you and isnt over you i would speak to him upfront and ask him if he does he soudns like he doesnt want to tell you how he feels or is scared to tell you it is hard for men to open up and tell or say how they feel but the best thing would be to sit and speak to him because you cant go on liek this you have a life to lead and sitting worrying or thinking does he liek me or still love me is hard and it gets to you go speak to him tell him how you feel and say to him to just open up and tell you how he feels :)
i hope this helps you
2006-11-20 05:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to keep you as available back up booty for him in case his new gf runs out on him. Get on with your life.....don't be stupid
2006-11-20 05:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing high school.
2006-11-20 05:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋