Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

I met this guy in school and we started to talk to each other. Then one day i called him and he told me that I have a secret admirer so i asked him who it is?...after a sudden pause, he said its me. I didn't know what to say?...Does this mean he loves me or only like me?

2006-11-20 06:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by dreamin of u 1 in Friends

respect it? He's said that we've gone through too much everyday since we've been married (we've only been married for a year) but should I respect that and give him his time? and if so should I continue to do the things that made him fall in love with me to begin with? Let me just say nothing was to the degree where infidelity was involved but more of insecurities, jealousy, and financial issues. What do I do in the meantime of waiting on his decision?

2006-11-20 06:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by bettyspagettii 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys feel the need to cheat even if they truly do love the one they are with?

2006-11-20 06:17:04 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ LISSA ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 06:16:56 · 17 answers · asked by kb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have tried to entice my husband with flavored lube, body paint, handcuffs and other toys - but he is still a Wham Bam Thank You Mam kind of guy.... any hope for foreplay?

2006-11-20 06:16:49 · 28 answers · asked by The Lizard Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

for the first 8 months he only did it at a couple of parties(3) with his friend, 2 in font of me, He says he wasn't lying, but I didn't know he was doing it every single day!!!!!

2006-11-20 06:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by NONONO 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 06:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf just broke up about a month ago! only cuse the fact that he started uni and i was in school n it was just too hard!!! and we met up on the weekend and everythin was great and it was like we were going out agen! nothin happend apart from a few cuddles. then on sunday he went bk to uni and after we had a chat on msn and he was syain stuff like "i must admit although i probably shouldntr even say this is wasnt easy being around you and not being your bf!! i so shouldnt say that!!"" and "'its hard not being your bf and being with you, or not as the case was!" and that " i just felt like for one night it could be the same again! It was a silly thought but im just saying i did feel it!" but i dont kno wt to do?? does he want to get bk with me?? and what do i say to him to ask without bein so obvious!!!? and he wudn mess me about either he isn the type!! What do i do?? XXXX help much apreciated xxxx

2006-11-20 06:16:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive just moved in and my room is a mess i have quite a bit of hw and time gos by so fast i dont have time to tidy or do other important things......the reason is that i go and spen so much time on the computer.......can any1 help?

2006-11-20 06:15:05 · 3 answers · asked by sexy♥ 2 in Friends

2006-11-20 06:13:20 · 3 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriends step dad has skin cancer he is a doctor and will not go to treatment because he knows to much; he often sits around and we know his time is running short. Me and my boyfriend want to plan a special day to create never ending memories with him. Anyone have any ideas of fun things that would mean a lot with out spending a lot. *I am a college kid(dont have a lot of money) yet this means so much to me i want this to be speical i love him and my boyfriend so much and it is hard to know that he is drifting.

2006-11-20 06:12:53 · 4 answers · asked by myka bellisari 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 06:12:52 · 9 answers · asked by AAYY 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf that looked at a girls you know what while i was standing there and he then turned and looked again. so what do you call a man who does this in front of his girl?

2006-11-20 06:12:24 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

time together since the middle of September and things have gotten physical, but we haven't actually had sex. It took him almost 6 weeks of hanging out before he kissed me. He is so nice to me, he offers to fix my computer and he helped me to put together a table...he offers to do different things for me. We've spent a lot of time together, but I don't really know if we are dating. We haven't had "the talk" or anything and he is unfortunately moving for a job in a few weeks...not too far away, about 2 hours, and I odn't know what to do. I've realized over the past couple days that I"ve really fallen for this guy and I would like things to continue, but I don't know that we are on the same page. I mean, he must like me if he has stuck around this long,right? And I know that I should ask him what is going on, but I don't know how to bring it up. I really like him so I'm scared of what he might say, but I don't know what to do! How do I bring it up? Does he even want to continue?

2006-11-20 06:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by helplesslyfalling 1 in Singles & Dating

As I said I am not so happy in my marriage, just bored, my husband has never been romantic but he is secure. I ran into an old fling from 9 years ago, he is also married, it is obvious he feels uncomfortable around me, not sure if it is good or bad but whatever it is I can't get him out of my head! I know I don't want him but what we had I feel I am lacking in my marraige, my husband has never done for me what that guy did, I miss it.

2006-11-20 06:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by susan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think people can be and stay happily married even if they are not madly in love. A deeper love and fondness can grow over time if you give it a chance and are both commited to making it work.
So does anyone else think arranged marriages can work?
Of course when I say that I don't me children or adults who are forced into it but two consenting adults who choose to marry strangers.

2006-11-20 06:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anguissette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my mid-thirties and have been married for 13 years. I have two grade school age kids. I love them all, however I'm bored out of my skull with the banality of our life. We are lower middle-class and don't have the money to buy excitement. But it is more than that: I am discontent with not being able to pursue anything new (career wise) for myself because it may set us back further financially than we already are (I make significantly more money). I'm so sick of sales and it's all I've ever done. I don't mind helping with housekeeping, but outside of washing the clothes, feel like I'm doing way more than she is and I can't stand the domestic monotony. SEX, she seems content with once a week - Sat only - but subtract an average of twice a month for her period, misc. illnesses or anything that may interupt her getting her in the mood emotionally. There's more but I don't have the space here. Am I starting a mid-life crisis, and being a jerk - or do things need to change? HELP.

2006-11-20 06:10:07 · 28 answers · asked by mr_slacker70 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 years old, and I swear some of these girls, don't realize the seriousness of becoming pregnant and giving birth. They think its so fun, and every things gonna be so great...and its like...your going to have a baby people!! It makes me sick to my stomach to see young girls like that, because their teenage life is over, regardless if the father sticks around or not. And especially the ones who aren't in school, or attempting to finish high school...what kind of lives will your children have? Why are you taking this so lightly?

And to see them accidentally pop out one kid after another...when their are married couples who would give their everything to be fertile and have a family. Just my little rant, does anyone else have opinions?

2006-11-20 06:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonstar 3 in Family

There's more (sorry). Yes, I am depressed. I am on 4 different kind of meds. My husband wants to change, begs, pleads, etc. But i feel like it's too late. I am exhausted in trying for the past 5 years. Numb, depressed, and liking another guy who is a total sweetheart to me. My HB does not know about the other guy. The other guy and I have been in contact for about 2 months (never thought it would come to this, was not looking). My HB and I are going to our first marriage counseling tonight. I am also seeing my own therapist. HB cries to me and says "how can you leave me?; I can't live with out you; how can you do this to our children?" I love my girls with all my hear, and soul. But I am numb towards my HB. How am I ever going to get out of my marriage, without feeling horrible?" I used to be happy, I used to laugh, now I lay on the floor and cry. I just WANT TO BE HAPPY AGAIN. Am I being selfish? What do I say to our children?

2006-11-20 06:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by Amy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have broke up like 2 years ago..... and now that im with my new girl that i care about alot. but my ex and I hang out with the same group of friends, so i still see her all the time. How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her.......and that I don't mind if she doesn't feel the same way but i need to get it off my chest....
should i just tell her?

What do you think?

2006-11-20 06:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 06:08:04 · 12 answers · asked by naedum4real 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got grounded fo rtwo weeks for caling off work to go to church. My dad took my phone which i broke..andi regret fully. But he also told m ei cant be aroind my boyfriend becuz he doesnt like him and he wont tell me why. I think its because of his family and hwere hes from. I am 16..will be 17 in december and my boyfriend just turned 20. Can my dad do anything gif i continue seeing him?...i thonk my parents should just let me make my own decisions and learn from my own mistakes. i wrot emy mom a two page front n back letter telling her how i feel?..do u think it will help?...I fel like they dont let me make the decisions i should be making at 17 years old. I tell them where im going and who oim with but my dad still thinks i lie to them. I have nevr gotten in trouble with ;law, done drugs and i dont drink. They think everytime im w/ my bf im having sex and its not even like that. I wantto be calm and work things out but how do i go about it?...what should i say?.

2006-11-20 06:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by cherish_life 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 06:05:22 · 19 answers · asked by gin2634 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the magic number? when can i give you some and you wont think that i am just a slut but someone to have a realationship with???? 2nd date 3rd, 5th, 7th ???????????

2006-11-20 06:04:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Finally i got the call i,ve been wanting for so long from a guy i went to school with 10 years ago. it took him 4 months to call me back .he says he just got the msg from his mom.he definaltley was happy to hear from me but it bothers me that he says he didnt remember much about me.i find it very insulting because he was absolutely crazy about me in school and chased me for a whole year,he also brought me gifts and called me everyday so i cant understand why he would forget. a part of me feels i shouldnt be this upset about it but i still am.im thinking i dont want to speak with him any more.what should i do?

2006-11-20 06:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

Christmas is arriving and I still don't know how i'm going to get my children anything!I'm a 27 year old,single mother who's struggling just to make sure my children have the basic things in life they need.We finally moved into our own apartment[we were in one room before]. With everything going on I really can't afford to give them the Christmas they truly deserve. I've heard of programs and dear.santa letters but I don't know how to get in touch with the programs.Can someone please offer me a little insight on what to do, so my children can have the Christmas they deserve. I just want to see their smiling faces on Christmas morning.

2006-11-20 06:03:52 · 19 answers · asked by gretchenholloway 1 in Family

2006-11-20 06:03:13 · 4 answers · asked by PrincessSnowflake 1 in Friends

this guy i like

2006-11-20 06:03:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind kissed all his other girl freinds and wont kiss me. Sometimes he wont evean give me a hug good bye. How can i get him to?

2006-11-20 06:02:40 · 21 answers · asked by Jackie G 1 in Singles & Dating

What Do You Think ?

2006-11-20 06:02:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships