Finally i got the call i,ve been wanting for so long from a guy i went to school with 10 years ago. it took him 4 months to call me back .he says he just got the msg from his mom.he definaltley was happy to hear from me but it bothers me that he says he didnt remember much about me.i find it very insulting because he was absolutely crazy about me in school and chased me for a whole year,he also brought me gifts and called me everyday so i cant understand why he would forget. a part of me feels i shouldnt be this upset about it but i still am.im thinking i dont want to speak with him any more.what should i do?
2006-11-20 06:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Can you blame him for moving on or maybe he just has bad memory. Or maybe he's just trying to play it cool, but deep down he knows how he used to feel for you. I would bring it up to him but I wouldn't stop talking to him because of something that happened in the past. I would have jokingly said "what, you forgot all about me? Did you remember you used to (insert nice things here). Wow, I can't believe you forgot all about that." By saying this to him he should easily catch on that you were a little hurt so maybe he'll apologize. Other than that, I wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
2006-11-20 06:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that after 4 months he gets the message. My mom barely remembers messages that she gets for me after 2 weeks let alone 4 months. Also maybe he isn't for you if he cant remember the good times you and him had together. I think that if he doesn't feel the same way about you, like you feel for him then it wasn't meant to be. You shouldn't beat yourself over but just move on...
2006-11-20 06:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey da guy called, dats a start, dont be so quick to judge because I mean 10years is a long time, instead look at it as an oppurtunity to start afresh, and get to know someone without judging.
2006-11-20 06:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet up with him for coffee. See if he's worth pursuing. Act like you're meeting at a class reunion. Keep things light. You both may be pleasantly surprised. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 06:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what it sounds like he's just trying to keep cool about talking to you again.
He thinks that if he tells you how much he remembers things that you'll just think he's a loser.
Just keep talking and I'm sure he'll come clean about it and confess to you.
Good luck!
2006-11-20 06:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him if you are still interested in him. I think its kind of weird that he doesn't remember much about you if he supposedly was crazy about you in school.... I'd ditch him.
2006-11-20 06:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is prob bs you because he may be embarrassed by his past behavior.I would let it go & concentrate on the here & now.
2006-11-20 06:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about it, move on because it's not worth it.
2006-11-20 06:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋