Why do guys feel the need to cheat even if they truly do love the one they are with?
2006-11-20 06:17:04 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ LISSA ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl thats a question that will always be asked........
and its always to boost up there confidence because the have big egos. Knowing that the one they love might leave them they always have another girl on the side so they wouldnt feel hurt or insecure they like to be all hard and macho. plus there guys they never know whats good for them.
my man of 2 yrs loves me and i know that and i love him but yet last night i found out he was talking to a girl behind my back trying to keep it from me and he admitted to doing so but he said shes not as pretty as me and he even told her he loved me but yet he kept it from me.......
please i was mad as hell......
they know who they love and they always will but love will make them do stupid things like mess around while there in love and girls will do stupid things when there in love by staying with them..............
2006-11-20 06:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by money-ca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they truly love the one they are with, then they aren't cheating. Being in love means that they two people care about each other and if he cheats he's not committed as he says he is. If he cheats there is or never was love to begin with
2006-11-20 14:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Monica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Sex - Yes, pure and simple. A man may cheat on you simply for sex. A man is able to have sex with another woman without having feelings for her. He can also have sex with another woman without affecting his emotions for his partner. So we guess the good news is that if your man has had sex with another woman, he may still be in love with you !
2. Ego - We all know how the male likes to have his ego boosted every now and then. Well having sex with a woman is a boost to his ego. The more women he has, the bigger the boost. If you don't believe us, just listen to guys talking about sex, they are more likely to talk about quantity rather than quality.
3. Excitement - Men, like us all, need excitement in their lives. Sometimes a relationship can squash that excitement, no matter how good the relationship. Having an affair brings some excitement back for them. We guess it's like having a new toy.
4. Because they can - How often have we heard this excuse? Yet it is true, men can cheat by having affairs and perhaps do it without too much conscience pricking.
5. Trophy hunting - This seems to go back to the very basics of male instincts. Young guys before they settle down are keen on trophy hunting - be it notches on the bed post, marks in a diary, empty wine bottles, photos etc. They are more interested in the number of girls they lay as a means of proving themselves to other guys and to themselves. It seems that some guys just cannot let go of this phase and may cheat in order to continue hunting trophies.
6. Fear of getting old - It seems that to some men, cheating is a way of proving to themselves and their mates that they are still young and able to 'pull'
2006-11-20 14:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love someone, there is no cheating!
2006-11-20 14:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the "truly love" the one they are with, they wouldn't cheat!!!!!!! True love doesnt involve hurt or cheating!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-20 14:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont truley love you then see i truly love my ex and we have been broken up for about a month and i still can bring my self to sleep with another girl ...age might have something to do with it
2006-11-20 14:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat because they are insecure.
they usually give the game away so they arent that bright.
if a man cheats on you, it shows hes not ready for the responsibily of a comitted relationdship. and most of all he cant be trusted.
big red light stay clear
2006-11-20 14:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SWEETIE,
if they cheat than obviously they are not happy or dont love you because if they do love you they would not be cheating and carrying themselves in that way....
2006-11-20 14:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can't be true love infatuation more like as if you love some one you wouldn't even go there tempted or girl stark naked in front of you .men take longer to grow up that's the problem they settle down to early they need to get it out of there system
2006-11-20 14:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by diane o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same reason women do. Is the thrill of the chase. And the consummation is incredible. It enriches our lives. We learn more about ourselves and the world around us. Be careful.
2006-11-20 14:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋