Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

There is a boy on my rowing team that I just started Coxing and I have a baby crush on him. He is adorable and a really nice guy. The other day after we just won the race he tilted his head over and said, "We won this race for you"
(It was my first time coxing a race)

@ the party afterwards we all got very intoxicated and we start dancing are lips got extreamly close and other boys in the boat pulled him off me and out of the room to start yelling at him for even trying to kiss me.

The coaches told the boys about ten times and myself that the rowers shouldn't hook up with the Coxwain cause it can cause drama. (I have maintaned myself well the alcohol got to me)

Later that night after the party I want to his dorm room and got close to kissing him but he stopped me and said it wasn't a good idea but he wanted to really badly.

Do I just try to pretend that I am not into him and he isn't into me, cause I see him everyday @ pratice.

Would you give up or maybe secreatly try?

2006-11-20 06:54:42 · 2 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

lets say licking and kissing your shoes, would you let him do it to knowing it makes him really happy?

2006-11-20 06:54:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 06:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Victoria B 2 in Singles & Dating

i was at the soda machine trying to get the machine to take my dollar and he come along.talking bout where dat gurl who be with you whats her name ? i said alyssa [shes my best friend]she went home. then he said what u still doing here i said oh im bout to get on the da internet what u doing here he said im got r.o.t.c and doing something educational u wouldnt know bout dat with ur 10 days of school skipping.i laugh then was still tring to get the soda machine to take my dollar i caught him looking at me out the side of his eye [ he was at the soda machine in another building acroos from the one i was in] then i went to another machine and got a pepsi and left mad then i told yall



I DON'T GET IT in the summer he wanted to go out with me and had his cousin ask me out for him but i said no i want to be his friend [ thank god i did] and he acted differnt after that he was mean making smart remarks and treatin me as i was dumb.

idunno what u think?

2006-11-20 06:52:38 · 2 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

I want a baby SOOO bad. I've been wanting one for a while now. And my boyfriend wants one too, but he says that he doesn't feel ready yet. I know that I'M ready for one right now, and I'm tired of waiting already. How can I convince him?

2006-11-20 06:52:27 · 44 answers · asked by qbanita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I start looking for another woman first to take her place, or propose divorce first and then start looking for a replacement afterwards.

2006-11-20 06:52:00 · 20 answers · asked by STEVEN P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just think that there's a possibility that I might die a virgin. I mean I don't believe in sex before marriage and I'm not too sure I'll ever get married. I've seen too many failed marriages and I've almost completely lost faith in the whole idea. (I'm 20 by the way)

2006-11-20 06:51:12 · 43 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

When we had child support set up it was supposed to be that I claim the first year, then he gets the next 3 yrs, then I can claim again and so on. But I think I remember them saying that if he was behind on his support than I automatically get to claim him.....I think. Does anyone know if this is true or something I Imagined???? I live in AZ

2006-11-20 06:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by wendyb204 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Christmas is coming up pretty soon and i cant figure out what to get my girlfriend. She is already getting me somthing nice but every time i ask her what she wants, she keeps saying that she does not know. Does anybody have any suggestions on what i should get her? (thanks for all suggestions)

2006-11-20 06:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by RJ 2 in Singles & Dating

My male roommate through a fit when I got no messager because I might talk to a man.

2006-11-20 06:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by selma b 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, this is a blended family (trying to stay away from the "step" title). 18 yr old girl (19 next month) supposed to start school in January, raised with single mother up to age 12. 12 yr old boy raised with both parents until age 7, lives with me and his father. 9 yr old girl raised with both parents until age 5, lives with her mother. 6 month old baby girl together. You can imagine all of the dynamics in this group. What are some general expectations age wise, for chores and family responsibility? We are trying to make this family work and it is very frustrating. My 18 yr old is giving the most problems at the moment, the 12 yr old is failing school and the 9 yr old doesn't really care as long as she is getting attention, preferably good. Everyone adores the baby, truly!! Please help!! I'm trying to save my family.

2006-11-20 06:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by Calli G 2 in Family

that didn't like football ?

2006-11-20 06:49:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife of ten years is wanting to trade me in for a new model. She is the love of my life and i don't feel i can mently go through this. Thoughts of sucide, yes. I have two kids that i love so that wont happen, What to do, read, talk to. help.

2006-11-20 06:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by brian b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been involved with a physically, emotionally and verbally abusive man for the past 5 years. The relationship is now ended, but the loss feels like a death. Having been abused, I no longer have friends and family to lean on or talk to, so the feeling of loneliness has quadrupled. My emotions and body have been so battered, that I feel like nothing. Where do I start on this healing process?

2006-11-20 06:48:18 · 16 answers · asked by * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he is really cut and we were going out for awhile then broke up because he didnt want a long term relationship and the next day he called and said he was sorry that he had made a mistake and wanted to get back together he said i was sweet and really hot but he was over saturday with his brother who is really cute and only 2 months older than my bf and my bf got really handsy and i have a hard time telling him no because i dont want to lose him but i want things to slow way down what do i do?

2006-11-20 06:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by ash16 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been involved with a physically, emotionally and verbally abusive man for the past 5 years. The relationship is now ended, but the loss feels like a death. Having been abused, I no longer have friends and family to lean on or talk to, so the feeling of loneliness has quadrupled. My emotions and body have been so battered, that I feel like nothing. Where do I start on this healing process?

2006-11-20 06:47:40 · 20 answers · asked by * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do people , specially guys mean when calling a girl "a chickenhead"?

2006-11-20 06:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a lesbian and i cant get my ex fiance out of my mind. HELP!!!

2006-11-20 06:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by six_color_dom 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I went through a losing business venture. It was not only my fault thought she blames me and tells everybody she knows how I am responsible for everything. Any idea how to proceed so I could have respect without going through a divorce?

2006-11-20 06:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by Last hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who didn't like shopping ?

2006-11-20 06:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl takes your hands and puts them on her body or would you rather just put your hands there yourself?

2006-11-20 06:45:49 · 27 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2 in Singles & Dating

She lived(s) in Chicago. She would be in her mid 50's now and had a battle with cancer when she was younger. I think she has 2 kids. Thanks for any directions.

2006-11-20 06:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by Your #1 fan 6 in Friends

2006-11-20 06:45:34 · 5 answers · asked by navy 1 in Singles & Dating

A married couple I know liked to pull this sneaky trick. They'd go into a bar and sit at opposite ends, pretending not to know each other. The Wife would approach some unsuspecting "sucker" and have him buy her drinks, but as soon as the guy would touch her, she'd scream for her Hubby who would proceed to beat the hell out of the guy, much to his wife's delight. They made a big mistake one night, the "sucker turned out to be a gold gloves boxer, who wailed the hell out of "hubby", and when the wife tried to kick the guy several times, he nailed her too. Ah yes, there is justice.

2006-11-20 06:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by sluggo1947 4 in Singles & Dating

it was her 19th birthday 11-17 she knows i like her i told her 2 weeks ago than she said she just need a friend now. she just got out a 2 year relationship were they were going to marry but her ex broke it off cause he was unhappy. they been apart for maybe 2-4 months. we had a little to drink not much about 2 shots when it started she told me to cuddle her which i have done before. than she told to mess with her neck lick it and stuff that lead to making out. after a good half hour she gets up and says sorry. she not ready right. that what she sorry for right? what should i do now? what should i say? when should call?

ok i called and ask if she wanted go to the movie just as friend and she said she just want to stay home. i messed up right she sound like she dint want to talk at all. man im in deep Sh-- right.

2006-11-20 06:45:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, do you rate your ex-girlfriends?
If yes, then what do you base it on? Their looks, how nice they were, who put out and who didn't, who you really liked or loved?

I'm just curious cuz I dated my ex-boyfriend for only a month. He was my first bf while he was older than me, and had much more experience with dating. We had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. The thing is, HE was the one who ended it (8 months ago!), BUT he still contacts me on msn sometimes, so do you think I'm a "highly rated" ex-girlfriend to him? haha

2006-11-20 06:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u look on the outside of a person or the inside (no stupid answers plz)

2006-11-20 06:43:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without it being too obvious.

2006-11-20 06:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will i went to mexico for vacation my dad lives there i was there 4 awhile but before that i was real popular and its not that i'm worried about popularity becuz thats not all there is to life but whats wrong is my friends hardly ever call me anymore they changed alot with me plz help

2006-11-20 06:43:44 · 2 answers · asked by rokfairy 1 in Friends

I dont understand why people on here want to ask questions that are so mean and not even true?
like this lady that i answered to on the last two question asking if its okay to leave her child in a dirty daiper for 10 hours or why its not okay to beat her children i mean why do this it is truly upsetting for me to hear about abuse of children and how do you even know if its true regardless its wrong...why do this?

2006-11-20 06:43:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships