he is really cut and we were going out for awhile then broke up because he didnt want a long term relationship and the next day he called and said he was sorry that he had made a mistake and wanted to get back together he said i was sweet and really hot but he was over saturday with his brother who is really cute and only 2 months older than my bf and my bf got really handsy and i have a hard time telling him no because i dont want to lose him but i want things to slow way down what do i do?
2006-11-20 06:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by ash16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start telling him no or you might lose him anyway. Don't let him get his hands all over you because you fear losing him. Tell him to keep his hands off you because you respect yourself! Guys actually like girls who have self-respect!
2006-11-20 06:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really does want to get back together with you, then you make him understand it's on your terms, which means you're in charge of the pace of the relationship. If he doesn't think well enough of you to respect your wishes, then he doesn't really care about you, he just wants some nookie so send him packing. You don't want him if he doesn't care how you feel.
2006-11-20 06:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by brainy137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
handsy like in real physical? well if thats what you mean im going threw the same thing.... my bfs the same way and i dont know what to do but tell him to stop if he loves me and respects me
2006-11-20 06:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by money-ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just tell him to slow it down. If he has respect for you he will listen. If he gets mad he's just after that one thing, and that type of relationship never works out
2006-11-20 06:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by ERIC B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some pepper spray and give him a shot each time he touches you. After a couple of times, he'll quit.
2006-11-20 06:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are offended with his "hands" then he should stop it. He doesn't seem to respect your feelings in that department so why even bother...why just because he is cute? Who cares if he is cute...girl, you need to be respected.
2006-11-20 06:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hands off ! If he doesn't listen to you MOVE ON!
2006-11-20 06:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel!
2006-11-20 06:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋