Guys, do you rate your ex-girlfriends?
If yes, then what do you base it on? Their looks, how nice they were, who put out and who didn't, who you really liked or loved?
I'm just curious cuz I dated my ex-boyfriend for only a month. He was my first bf while he was older than me, and had much more experience with dating. We had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. The thing is, HE was the one who ended it (8 months ago!), BUT he still contacts me on msn sometimes, so do you think I'm a "highly rated" ex-girlfriend to him? haha
2006-11-20 06:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys are pigs, in case you didn't know. They will dump you just like that if they can't use your body. They will rate you on how much of a whore you were and also on how much of a ***** you were, and even if you're perfect they'll eventually get tired of you and move on to other girls to add variety and spice it up. I have to say I'm really proud of you that you never went past kissing with this guy, and that's the ultimate test of love because if a guy stays when he's not getting sex, then obviously he cares about you for other reasons. I hope this guy resects you for being different from most other girls he knows, because most girls are whores, but that doesn't mean you have to be one of them. Just because people are in a majority doesn't mean they're right. Keep close contact with your friends who believe the same things that you do, and it might be a good idea to talk to your mom about it as well. She was in your situation before once and she will support you if you want to do what's right.
2006-11-20 06:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ready for this? ok. First of all he ended the relationship cause u didnt put out. guys need sex. If he had more experience that means he was already getting laid. Since ur not redy for that he moved on. Thats why it only lasted a month and he ended it. Right? ok. Now the reason he still keeps in touch, is because hes looking to see if u change ur mind and decide u don't wanna wait till marriage. As far as rating an ex chick, Well we always say "she was the finest" So we dont want anything lower than that. but if we break up with them we obiously didnt like them that much!!
2006-11-20 14:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by RUDY THE RUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on u for upholding some sort of moral code. Maybe he is contacting you because he wants to conquer you now because he couldn't before. Be careful. Maybe he contacts you because he is bored. I suppose I do rate my ex girlfriends, but I certainly don't dwell on that issue, they don't deserve that sort of attention from me. What is gone is gone and you need to look forward not backwards.
Johnno
2006-11-20 14:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should date guys closer to your age. the last person who asked me a question like this was 15, and dating a 23 year old. Maybe he just wants you to put out, then he will leave. Accept it for what it is. Either make him commit, or don't play into his fantasies.
2006-11-20 14:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it has to do with rating I think he just feels comfortable talking to you because he knows you will always probably talk to him considering he was your first BF, so in a since your his emotional tampon when things dont go right he contacts you when things are boring he contacts you....if I were you I'd drop that seudo relationship.....also he broke up with you probably because you wouldnt put out.
2006-11-20 14:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by buuyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word...no. If they think you are hot then of course they will remember you as being hot but they aren't going to do equations to figure out a rating!
2006-11-20 14:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still likes you, or sees you as a friend.
2006-11-20 14:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is hoping you want him back and will give him the goodies
2006-11-20 14:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by shawn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋