My wife of ten years is wanting to trade me in for a new model. She is the love of my life and i don't feel i can mently go through this. Thoughts of sucide, yes. I have two kids that i love so that wont happen, What to do, read, talk to. help.
2006-11-20 06:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by brian b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you asked your wife what it is that you may be lacking. Have you been totaly there for her emotionally as well as financially. Maybe she is going through a very selfish phase in her life.
Have you asked her to go to counseling to see if you guys can mend what is broke. I dont know your situation but as being a woman myself there seems to be something more going on in your lives for her to want something different. Try talking to her.
2006-11-20 06:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_treats_4_u33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, the end of a marriage is not the end of the world. As grim as things may look, there are lots of single women out there who would be glad to partner up with you. For now, suggest marriage counselling. If she wants the marriage to be truly over, seek counselling for yourself. Your kids need you. They will be going through the divorce along with you and will be just as heart-broken as yourself. Live for them, if not for yourself.
2006-11-20 06:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she already have the new model picked out yet? Tell her you are like a fine wine, better with age. Tell her the new model may have advanced bells and whistles, but the old model is dependable and still runs great.
2006-11-20 06:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st- get your mind straight on your priorities to your kids, show them that they come first in whatever decision is made. Then, get counseling, a counselor can suggest some appropriate reading materials for you and sessions to help you cope with this critical point in your life. keep in mind that your kids might need help too.
Good luck.
2006-11-20 06:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by alananavarro22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Need to talk to your priest or pastor.....to friends and family or at the very least a shrink. Perhaps your wifewill go with you.
Someone said that going through a divorce is like dealing with a death....very hard financially and emotionally. ---seek help and assistance locally
2006-11-20 06:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by linniesue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll get better... just focus on the kids, maybe talk to a counselor, read some self-help books
2006-11-20 06:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see professional help if this is getting in the way of your everyday life- which is seems like it undoubtedly is.
2006-11-20 06:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need- to visit your doctor and get some anti-anxiety, depression medication.
2006-11-20 06:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling.
2006-11-20 07:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with both of them
2006-11-20 06:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by dhiren_bullseye 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋