what is the magic number? when can i give you some and you wont think that i am just a slut but someone to have a realationship with???? 2nd date 3rd, 5th, 7th ???????????
2006-11-20 06:04:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhhh..dont go sleepin wit him...wait a year or more...
2006-11-21 01:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic number. All situations are different. How long have you known the guy before you went out? How strong is the attraction? Are you boozed up and just looking to make a bad decision? Lots of factors go into it, but don't attach a number to matters of sex.
2006-11-20 14:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by irish1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think when ever you really get to know each other. If he is trying to get it by the second date or first your just meat to him and I wouldn't bother with him. Of course this is assuming that you want a relationship yourself. If he likes you and you like him and you think it might be going in the right direction then that's the time. How many dates does that take? It's up to you. If he is the right guy he will wait till your ready.
2006-11-20 14:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are fully realizing what you are giving him and the possibilities that may result. Do you know of any single mothers? Yep, accidents do happen.
If you are willing to risk having a child from someone you had better know him a lot better than even a few months of dating. And would he be willing to turn his life over to you and your child if you do get pregnant?
What is the worth of your child? Does it deserve an intact family with a mother and father that are married and committed to each other and the child?
It seems the prudes that say wait until you are married just could be right.
2006-11-20 15:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you said, Guys Only, but I would say 2nd date never the first. Unless the chemistry between you is great and you've no him longer than 2 weeks. I would do it but I would make sure I protected myself. If he is in to you it wont matter how fast you give it up, find out his intentions before you give it up.
2006-11-20 14:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about the number, but the passion. Your going to find that if you are worried about this number, you're going to worry about how many times a week is normal, when you are a couple. Don't go off HIS passion either, it's too difficult to tell if he wants you or if he wants whoopee! Just go off your own heart. If you are just frisky, then this answer is completely invalid and you need to decide what kind of a relationship you want.
2006-11-20 14:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing. Well....never on the first date. Guys are varied. Some men speak of the "sexual conquests ". Those ones, you can be on your 12th millionth date, and you're still a [censure].
It's more of a " Level of relationship " thing. If you're relationship is truely intimate and on a level where you're trusting each other with you're true feelings, then ( on a romantic level ) the conditions are correct.
Of course, be prepared to deal with the consequences.
2006-11-20 14:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the first date
2006-11-20 14:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well by waiting at least a month, you will find that you and your boyfriend will get to know so much more about eachother. That will provide a more intimate relationship and a more satifying experience for both of you. Anything sooner than a month means "I don't want a long term relationship." to most guys.
2006-11-20 14:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let your bodies take over it will be on the first or second date, if you let your mind take over, then it will be your 8th or higher. Lets see who wins. But thinking of you as a *****, not really too much in this day and age.
2006-11-20 14:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda like the anticipation of knowing we both want to really bad, but waiting until about the 5th or 6th date.
2006-11-20 14:07:21 · answer #11 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋