me and my bf just broke up about a month ago! only cuse the fact that he started uni and i was in school n it was just too hard!!! and we met up on the weekend and everythin was great and it was like we were going out agen! nothin happend apart from a few cuddles. then on sunday he went bk to uni and after we had a chat on msn and he was syain stuff like "i must admit although i probably shouldntr even say this is wasnt easy being around you and not being your bf!! i so shouldnt say that!!"" and "'its hard not being your bf and being with you, or not as the case was!" and that " i just felt like for one night it could be the same again! It was a silly thought but im just saying i did feel it!" but i dont kno wt to do?? does he want to get bk with me?? and what do i say to him to ask without bein so obvious!!!? and he wudn mess me about either he isn the type!! What do i do?? XXXX help much apreciated xxxx
2006-11-20 06:16:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like the decision he made earlier wasn't what he really wanted to do and now getting to be around you again has showed him that he really wants to be with you. if I was you I would talk it over with him and see if maybe you two can reach some happy medium with each other and deal with the distance. I mean if its serious between you then distance is not a problem. but if its not that serious then try maybe just being together when you can and still do come innocent dating on the side when your not together. but I wuoldn't do anything else if your going to be sexually active with him. we still want to be safe no matter what you do. But it sounds like he really likes you and being there showed him he didn't want to be with out you. I would go for it!
2006-11-20 06:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think about it too hard ... if he's going to be back & forth visiting all the time then I don't see why you can't try things out again ... maybe the distance isn't that hard for you two to get by ... but if he's going to be there majority of the time ... it won't take him long to find some new friends & get into the college life ... meeting new girls ... going to parties ... etc ... just ask him ... flat out - why not be obvious ... that's the only way to get staight answers ... ask him if he still wants to be with you .. and if there's anything holding him back ... if he says no & he just wants to be friends - look out for the " friends with benefits " relationship that he might be trying for ... lol ... all that cuddling & e-mail talk means nothing if you're not really together ... !
2006-11-20 06:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all to very easy sit behind a computer and type in what they know your hoping to hear,till he can stand facing you and telling you that he would like for you to become an item again,take it with a very small pinch of salt
2006-11-20 06:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh get back with him, i went out with my now hubby for 5 years long distant, he was in Scarborough i was in Cambridge. we saw each other snatched weekend, but we got married and have been together for 18 years now. if you were meant to be together distance/commitments wont come between you
2006-11-20 06:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text or e.mail him and ask him outright, it'll save you a lot of waiting around and heartbreak. No use hanging around, he either wants to be with you or he doesn't, sorry, get in touch with him.
2006-11-20 06:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by RUTH M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably he just realized that he made a mistake and he wants a chance to make things right again. Just talk to him about it.
2006-11-20 06:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how much you enjoyed being around him and that you miss him being ur b/f, dont let the moment pass and feelings go misunderstood, life is too short for that.
2006-11-20 06:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships where someone is at uni NEVER WORK!!
Trust me, you'll only get hurt and when you go to uni you'll want to have fun yourself. Cut your losses and make the most of being young!
2006-11-20 06:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by fatboyslick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have heard of ladies having a metalic style of their mouths. it should be consistent, or it may come and flow. I used to get mine in the back of my bottom enamel, i ought to style it if i ought to contact my tongue there. notwithstanding it ought to leave in certain situations. good success darlin.
2016-10-16 09:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..tht wasnt a quick question :( but trust me mama it won't neva b the same! just accept that fact. but appreciate him as a friend !
2006-11-20 06:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋