A year ago, I dated J. a couple of months. We had fun, and he took me on the most romantic date of my life. We never slept together. I was in college, and very unstable (I lived in four places during the time we dated); he's VERY stable and I think it freaked him out. Plus, being so unstable, I was desperate to hang on to him b/c he was a pillar of strength...desperation is not a good quality in someone you're dating. I left on a 2 month trip (we emailed). When I came back, he invited me out one night, but the next day called me and said things weren't going to work out. He wanted to be friends and I said no. He had always been 'scared of commitment' b/c he had been hurt in a previous relationship, and he wasn't sure he was going to remain living in CA, and didn't want to get attached to someone here. I am now working in my dream job, have my own apt., happy with my life, and think I'd like to date him again. I miss him.Should I acknowledge I was wrong and ask to be friends again?
2006-11-20 05:37:23 · 2 answers · asked by keengrrl76 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you gotta decide if you actually miss HIM or if you miss the aspect of having a serious relationship. If you just miss the relationship, then you can always find someone else. If you miss him specificly, call, email, text message, or do anything you can to talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Tell him that you know that your life was a little crazy when you knew him before and now you know you have changed. (MAKE SURE, you don't want the same mistake to happen again). Tell him you've grown up and you want to see how things will work now that your out of your wild side. Just tell him the truth. If he says no or rejects you or anything, you will know that he is probably not the right person for you and you should take your responsible self and find someone else.
2006-11-20 05:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should try
2006-11-20 13:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by funnybudy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋