is he leading a double life? they have one 6yr.child together, a home,car, and all that. he wants to be in control and smacks her when they argue. plans a day for the family,then gets mad and stays gone all day,?at friends house,male friend is a cheater also. he is a truck driver. really jealous,but controlling and leaves.
2006-11-20 05:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by granny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for a man to do all that he is angry with himself. and his wife can't help him. she wasting her time. and she knows down deep inside he's living a double life. he could be on drugs or drinking a lot or other women or all of them. for someone to do all that he making accuse to leave the house. and the controlling part he doe's that to keep her in line for she won't leave him or be with someone else.he's scarring her (his wife) and she needs to open her eyes and ears. because right now she got's them wide shut. tell her to read Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger you can find this book in most all book stores.
2006-11-20 06:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a person, we have various aspects which make up our own character. You say you have two different lives, but in reality its just two sides two the person you are. You're family are the ones who should always be there to support you, regardless of anything you've done or are doing, unless what you're doing is completely wrong (but as you have said you are not a criminal). (Although this varies from family to family) Diaries are great, but they're also a great way for nosey people to come and snoop. Try writting it up on an email, and sending it to yourself, that way its always there and assuming no one knows you're password, it'll be kept a secret, and its basically like an electronic diary ! P.s. Try to get the best of both worlds, if there is ANY possibilty, try incooporating both of these "Different lives" into one, and soon you'll find that your character will be shaped, and you wont find your home life mediocre or boring !
2016-05-21 23:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous. Jealousy will often change to the non valiant abuse.
Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.
No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy?
Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them.
2006-11-20 05:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way should a woman stay with a control nut. And that is just what he sounds like to me, life is to short for that. But she has to do it on her own, you can tell her to dump the guy all you want, but she has to, and for herself.
2006-11-20 05:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should be hoping he's living two lives, and that the next time he leaves your life, he never returns.
2006-11-20 05:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not get past "smacks her when they argue"....double life or not, she needs to get herself and her son out of this situation.
2006-11-20 05:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he's probably leading the second life with that friend he's always hanging out with. :)
2006-11-20 05:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe two lives, maybe just one really cr@ppy life. get out now while she can. no one deserves to live like that. and men like that don't change, they onlu get worse.
2006-11-20 05:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by barefootdaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him no woman should have to be smacked
2006-11-20 05:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by gin2634 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not only cheating but abusing you as well...get away from this person
2006-11-20 05:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋