Say you have been with someone for about 10 years. He has not really been trustworthy but you accept him because you can't let him go emotionally. Then you meet someone new and start seeing him too. New guy knows about 10-year guy and doesn't mind. You slowly find yourself falling for him.
2006-11-20 05:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by prettyboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to be completely honest with your 10yr. guy. What truly matters is whether or not YOU are happy. So, I think you need to ask yourself that question. Do you want to spend the rest of your life denying your own happiness just because you don't want to hurt someone's feelings? Take a risk. Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes the things that we think are meant to be.....really are not. Miracles come in all shapes and sizes. Love has no definition.....so stop trying to look it up! Good luck to you!
2006-11-20 07:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not wrong. If you are open and honest with both, and they both accept it, it's called being polyamorous.
I've been poly all my life. Two years ago, I had a bf and gf. We all loved each other.
I'm also married. Under our rules, my wife always had the option of vetoing a new relationship I'm wishing to start. My wife has the option of having others too.
2006-11-20 13:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never leave the ones you love for the one you like, Because the one you like may leave you for the one they love. I know 10 years is a long time. But if you love the person, and are 900% positive go for it. It may work out.
2006-11-20 13:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wel, i tink dat u should brake up with 10 yrs. guy, because even though da new guy knows bout him, you could hurt 10 yr guy because he doesn't know rite???? think bout him 2, its always good to think about other people too, or put yourself into someone else's shoes, in if u think it hurts it might hurt them too. Or u could juz be a muthafukin pimp. lol!!
2006-11-20 13:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Alejandra Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldnt the new guy mind?Are you just a bootie call for him?
2006-11-20 13:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know it is so wrong...so give up
2006-11-20 13:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋