My husband left yesterday to go back to guam (he is in the navy) he wont be back for a long time and i am lonely without him already. Can anyone like other military wives tell me what to do so i dont feel like this.....
2006-11-20 05:29:04 · 24 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i already have a job to keep me busy but it dont help
2006-11-20 05:29:36 · update #1
i live 3 hours away from the closest Navy base
2006-11-20 05:49:21 · update #2
I am not a military wife now, but was a ong time ago..I suggest that you get together with other wives whose husbands are with yours ...You get together and it makes it alot easier to deal with..You have your own support team that will be there for you...Good Luck to you and God bless your husband ........He will be home eventually but you have to remain strong during that time ..So chin up and walk proud ...Your husband is defending our country...Be damn PROUD
2006-11-20 05:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explore the options - military generally have programs/support groups for military wives.
Any chance of you being able to relocate to Guam?
We can suggest support groups/hobbies/job etc... but it won't stop you from missing the physical side of your relationship with your husband... I would really see about moving to Guam if you can't see yourself going months and months(or year) without intimacy with your husband.
Here's a link to check out: http://www.guam-online.com/
2006-11-20 05:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla...how far are you from the base or any military base. Most of them have family unit groups and all sorts of services for wives while their husbands are deployed. I have watched my daughter in law go through this twice now, I know its hard. The best thing is to be with other wives who understand and can help.
2006-11-20 05:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some web site for military wives,to support each other and chat.
Here's a couple...God Bless you and your husband.
2006-11-20 05:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♀Mañana♥^¥ ♪☺↕♫©⢠size= 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find some hobbies or some women's groups that you can join. It is a difficult time for him to leave with the holidays and stuff. It is part of being a military wife.
2006-11-20 05:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed so you must sleep in it. The best help will come from other military wives. They have support groups.
You have chosen a tough path, one for strong independent wives. If you are neither and have no kids, you may want to reconsider if your life is impossible. But make every effort to make it work, it will be a growth experience for you. If you have kids, stick it through, you must for their sake.
2006-11-20 05:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know whats it like to be married but i know that it's no different from a boyfriend girlfriend relationship just have faith because the only thing that is making you feel left out and it is sex.
So don't get caught up because trust me you will fall for anyone it is better to have a man trust you rather than making him think of you as a nasty slut, ***** you know what i am saying be true to yourself and wait on that man talk to him as he go threw each and everyday of his life we all know that we have to make sacrifices in our life it is hard but hold on go to church or something but i know for sure that you have to wait.
2006-11-20 05:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find some hobbies, I'm also aware that most military support groups offer counseling for the spouse left behind on long deployments.
2006-11-20 05:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband left :(?
2014-12-13 01:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a book club or some other kind of club that should keep you entertained for a while. your husband will be back before you know it . good luck and god bless and happy thanksgiving.
2006-11-20 05:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋