Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

me and my girlfriend been going out 4 years now im 20 and shes 19 but she still needs to ask her mum if she can go out or even stop at mine what type of advice can i give her before it ends up pulling us apart any advice will do thanks!

2006-11-19 06:44:59 · 13 answers · asked by reaper420 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am not complaining about how i look cause i am happy with it but i am athletic and 2 years ago i landed with size c alien boobs which i totally hate.

2006-11-19 06:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago and he told me that we should always be friends, but we have been best friends once before. One day last week, he saw me having a bad day and all of a sudden he asked me what was wrong. Does that mean he cares or just wants to be friends? He doesnt call me or email me or anything but only says a few simple words to me when we are at school. What could this mean?

2006-11-19 06:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-19 06:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy and I were together for a long time until the relationship eventually turned sour. Now, we've become more of a friends with benefits type thing. He's the one person I trust besides my mother. Since our break up he's been with another woman and so have I, a man but that hasn't changed anything. We still speak and act the way we did when we were together. How can we make this work without either of us getting attached. I don't know about us actually being together in the long run, we're not ready for that yet, or atleast I'm not. But as for now, this is the situation that's going to have to work.

2006-11-19 06:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by silence_within_chaos 2 in Singles & Dating

I was trying to make some friends on myspace, but I don't think they seem to look for a nice guy to be friends with? the first thing they do is give me their number which is weird.
So most women there are there for the hit or something else?
sorry ladies if you have myspace, but almost 90% of them are acting like that...any suggestions?

2006-11-19 06:40:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean... it's not like you're going to marry each other... and isn't the whole point of dating, as an adult, to find your future spouse?

2006-11-19 06:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by Baljinnyam D 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with him 8 months ago. And I so want to get the ball rolling and get over him. But it's creepy because everyday for the past 8 months, there's not one day that I do not think about him. To make matters worse, he contacts me once a month (always the third week), and it sends me reeling back to Day 1 of the breakup. I know he still wants to be friends, but it's tricky because as much as I want to be, I'm not yet over him.

The break-up was caused by the oh-so used "it's not you, it's me" and he was the one who broke up with me. Prior to the relationship we were really good friends and then we decided to go into it. It was not conventional. We didn't get into a relationship because we were in love. We just liked each other. But then I fell in love with him, and that's when it all came tumbling down.

Will it be cruel of me to tell him that I don't think we can be friends anymore? The reason for this is (and i don't want to tell him) because i still love him.

2006-11-19 06:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 06:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-19 06:38:15 · 2 answers · asked by DONALD C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for about 5 months and recently moved in together. His last gf cheated on him and he was pretty heartbroken about it. now he gets worried that I will cheat on him, even though he has nothing to be suspicious about. It doesnt help either that during the move in together, I was moving some items from my bedroom and accidently dropped a bottle of ky in my car, so when I found it, I put it in my glovebox to grab out later. Well he found it and now is more worried than ever.

how can I get him to trust me? It seems I never really had his trust in the beginning so how do I get that? He is really a wonderful guy, but he was just hurt by an ex. this hasnt really affected our relationship yet but I find myself avoiding hanging out with friends because I dont want him to think I am out cheating on him.

2006-11-19 06:37:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an 18 year old from the States, but I'm currently living in Switzerland for college. My parent have announced that they are getting a divorce because my mother cheated on my dad with a family "friend". My brother, 17 yr. old and my sis, 13 yr old are at home dealing with all this stuff.
I've decide to drop out of college to get a job a support the family, because not only did my mom have an affair she stole my identity and wrote checks in my name all while I was in Switzerland. So to make a long story short, we are poor and according to my father I'm going to be arrested for her crimes when I get back to the states. But I can't clear my name b/c I have no money to call a lawyer nor do I have money to hire one.
But I think that my father might be lying about the police b/c that's what my brother seems to think. My mother got a restraining order against my dad and they have both been trying to ruin eachothers lives, like this is some game... but they are hurting others.

2006-11-19 06:36:27 · 4 answers · asked by TC 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this girl and we have been going with each other but she doesnt want to go steady and keeps on going with other boys and this makes me fell really depressed and i cant stop thinkin about her!!! i just dont know what to do

2006-11-19 06:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your friends? your children ? your siblings ? If they didn't come and visit what would that say about you ? what would that say about them?

2006-11-19 06:35:00 · 3 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

they marry, have children, etc, and you can't have a normal life because of family's illness, etc, and you can't even build a serious relationship, and they hurry so much to get another one

2006-11-19 06:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my 2 best friends are fighting over a guy and he doesn't like either one of them what do i do ??? he also has a gf

2006-11-19 06:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by NATHENSGIRL 1 in Friends

For example, a parent tells a kid to go to their room and they walk out the front door instead.

What can a person do?

2006-11-19 06:32:56 · 15 answers · asked by Led*Zep*Babe 5 in Family

2006-11-19 06:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hasn't he left her in the past and he said it was because he didn't have a reason to. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months now. He constantly tells me how happy I make him and how he feels as though he's in another world when we are together. He finally has a reason to leave but theres kids and a lot of money and property involved. My question is how long should I wait for him to get his priorities together?

2006-11-19 06:30:03 · 27 answers · asked by confusedinphilly 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced after 2 years and had stayed pretty much alone for the entire time. I was really missing out on intimacy and sex. So, I went with someone whom I wasn't as attracted too physically. Her name is Kari. It was nice but now, I sort of want to go to the next girl. A few days after the sex, and sometimes during the time we were out doing things, I thought about my ex-wife. So, I called the ex and talked with her a while and told her that I still had feelings that weren't completely dead and she pretty much reciprocated the same feelings. I concluded that I am just gonna have to move on from the ex knowing that a little part of me will still love her. I felt better. Trouble is, I am pretty sure that Kari likes me and might be hurt. I want to tell Kari the truth and I am asking all of you what is the best way that would be the most repectful way of doing that? The really weird part is now, my ex-wife wants to come over and have sex too. I am not willing for that

2006-11-19 06:29:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Singles & Dating

my mother takes everything the wrong way.if i say that the room is dirty,she'll call my dad and then i get in trouble 4 it.i've never done anything like sneak out the house or something that'll set her off like that.i'm always appoligising 4 things i didn't even start.i have 2 younger sibs,4,&,7 & she acts like they are more important then me.i ran away 2 my bffs house but i got caught.i know it not the right thing 2 do,but,it's the only way i can get away from all her bitterness and rudeness.she used 2 call me by my nickname,but stoped calling me by it.what should i do!!!!
P.S. dont be mean please! ;(

2006-11-19 06:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2 in Family

what kind of text messages do you love getting from your boyfriend?

2006-11-19 06:28:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every body is telling me to ask him out. Should I wait until he asks me out or should I ask him out???

2006-11-19 06:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by Foxy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week, I was over at my b/f's house one night and we were making out, when he suggested he go get some condoms before anything went further. Well when he left, I took it upon myself to look through his nightstand drawers and was shocked at what I found! I found about 5 polaroids of this little skinny blonde witch that looked no more than 19, nude!!! And another girl was in one of the pictures. When he got back I asked him about it and he said it was from along time ago, that the girl came on to him and he had kind of a one night stand with her, but couldn't he throw them away for me!!?? We have been going out for a month and I really love him. He is in his 30's and I am 29, do you think he is cheating on me??

2006-11-19 06:26:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from dollar general and it had snow white and cinderella in it for $5 dollars they were plastic dolls with dresses on and the one I got her was a new fashion show barbie that lit up she picked it out herself Do you think that was fair?

2006-11-19 06:25:52 · 13 answers · asked by ♠Whoa!♠ 2 in Friends

My friend is 14 and goes to WI Dells for like 4 weeks alone ith her b/f. Her mom wants to know is she should be worried. Should she??

2006-11-19 06:24:47 · 12 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 06:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by LESLIE S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best guy friend is the only person who knows that I have anorexia and bulimia and I think I'm getting worse. He's really over protective and yesterday I threw up blood, I want to tell him, but I'm afraid he'll get mad at me. Because I know I need help but I also don't know how to tell him.

What should I do?

And please, no answers about how I need help and am killing myself, the only thing I want to know is how to handle this particular situation.

2006-11-19 06:24:05 · 17 answers · asked by Mina V 1 in Friends

i think i have fallen in love with my close friend

2006-11-19 06:24:02 · 5 answers · asked by estelle h 1 in Friends

I really need to know if anyone knows someone with the screen name of Manicscape.

2006-11-19 06:24:01 · 1 answers · asked by Squishy 1 in Friends