Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

ok. well in class my teacher who is kinda old droped some pop sickle sticks and i decided to pick them up for him and i pick them all up and give them to him. these stick were under an all guys table and they were all laughing for some reason and this guy ray grabed my arm and said my teacher was looking at my butt and stuff and the whole table of guys were laughing. now i didnt really believ it becuz 1. im not a **** and i dont wear the short short skirts. and 2 i was at an angle so i didnt think he saw anything but why were they laughing?? Now next question. im 13 years old and i know teens like me dont truly flirt yet but how do girls my age flirt. in our own way. im in the 8th grade by the way. and what do guys really like to see in girls?? also. we were on my felid trip. and my friend sat in one seat and i sat in the other next to her and we were by ourselves because we were trying to save seats for friends. then there were these guys nick and his friend collin who i like. and nick told me and my friend:he was talking to my friend and said scoot over so she did and then he told me to scoot over and he pulled collin by the arm and pushed him into my seat so he would be next to me. what does that mean and collin is a guy where sometimes he doesnt really want to talk to somepne or be by someone and im trying to talk to him more because most of the time he is just like stay away from me and he stands in the corner by himself and ill go over and talk to him but hes not a geek. he has tons of friends and all the gilrs talk to him. he talks to me more than he does with anybody but when nick pushed him into my seat he didnt say anything it was like he really didnt mind and then my friend was like how about i sit with Brianna and you guys can sit together and nick said fine but collin said nothing. so what does all of this mean?? thanx!!

2006-11-19 07:28:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my crush's dad passed away, and i emailed him about how if he ever wanted to tak i would be there, and how he's strong, and i admire him...etc. Well right now he's on msn, I said hi to him before, but he didnt answer, a few minutes later he went off! Now he's on again...should I try and start a convo...with the traditional hi....or should I just leave him alone? Please NO rude comments!

2006-11-19 07:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

if the man is a good fren/close fren or co-worker says to the lady " you look very beautiful today," out of the blue . does it mean anything or just a random thing

2006-11-19 07:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 07:27:23 · 17 answers · asked by patti r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, say (for example) Tom is in love with Jane, but Tom's dad (who is devorced) is in loved with Jane's mother (who is also devorced) If Tom's dad marries Jane's mother, is Tom and Jane allowed to get married since they would be brothers and sisters.

2006-11-19 07:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had been in a commited relationship or so I thought for the last year and we have had our ups and downs. But he started seeing a therapist for his commitment issues which I didn't have any idea existed. I know that he would change his mind about things like moving in together from day to day. What does this mean?

2006-11-19 07:26:58 · 4 answers · asked by Sexcchick 2 in Singles & Dating

sooooo...my ex was like, i need space! so i give it to him. a week later, he writes saying he was sorry that things didnt work out he is stupid thought it was worth trying (apparently he was getting back with his ex, which is whatever, my ex and i are close friends) THEN i get a text of him asking if we could watch a movie tonight. WHATS UP? Is he confused as hell or am I missing something?! i asked him, i guess your whole needing space is on hold...NO REPLY. HELP! serious answers only

2006-11-19 07:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend so much. Just i don't know if it's real. I think about him everyday. It makes me so happy when i see him. And i still get some butterflies even though it has been almost 6months. He tell me he loves me everytime and i say it back. But i just don't know.

2006-11-19 07:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a restaurant as a cashier/host and I put in a request for time off for Thanksgiving (we're closed TG day) in the beginning of the month. On Nov. 7thth he denied my request. My mom's mad because she already paid for a trip to Canada and she says it's against the law for employers to not grant you time off if you request it weeks in advanced. She says I should quit or get someone to cover my shift. But last time I did that I found another coworker who was willing, but my manager said no to that b/c then the guy would've been working too many hours that day and because he said he needed me there too. But this new girl who started last week got someone to cover for her this Saturday and that was all cool. I've been there eight months. So what do you

If I call in sick for Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday, and if they susepct I'm lying and really on vacation, can they fire me for that? They can suspect all they want, but if they don't have proof and can't legally fire me, thenimok

2006-11-19 07:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but whenever I talk to him, he is always the first one to break eye contact with me. I kind of get the feeling he is afraid to talk to me. He is a nice, soft-spoken type of guy but he only talks when I ask him questions. I do most of the talking and it's become exhausting. His shyness is starting to become a turnoff. What should I do to get to know him better without making him uncomfortable if he is really shy?

2006-11-19 07:24:59 · 7 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't pick up after himself, he doesn't clean, he puts his feet on our furniture. He actually put a cigarette burn in our brand new couch the other day and didn't even care! His only real "job" in this household is to take out the trash, and as I sit here there are 3 bags of trash sitting on my back porch waiting to be taken to the dumpster. So, men, what can I do to get him to take more responsibilty for the things that we've spent our hard earned money on? (and don't give me any "have sex" with him answers, we're married we already do that, okay.)

2006-11-19 07:24:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a dirty dog/slag/malewhore according to my mates i feel i'm just following my natural instincts, which i was given as a human, what do u reckon then???

2006-11-19 07:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really need to know

2006-11-19 07:23:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Kinda bored this sunday and wanted suggestions for things to do, I stay in Chicago but it doesn't really matter, ideas to do stuff are ideas to do stuff, Thanks!

2006-11-19 07:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Family

2006-11-19 07:22:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Reccently my husband lost temper with his grandson who is 16. He hit him several times. We talked, and he said he was sorry and would not let additude get in the way of judgement again.

For the past while it hasn't been a problem, or so I thought. Today, my granddaughter - who is not living with us - approached me with the concern that my husband was hitting my 16-year-old-grandson.

I asked her why he didn't say anything, and she replied, "Cause when Dad lived with us, Dad hit him all the time and nothing was ever done 'till I told you."

Then here's the real kicker - he was reading today and my husband took the book and hit him in the eye with it!

I can't go to his mother, his father's in prison. I'm not sure what to do, any advice?

2006-11-19 07:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by CandyCorn 1 in Family

The mom had one kid and the dad had the other kid
The kids meet up at the camp
They switched parents

2006-11-19 07:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The mom had one kid and the dad had the other kid
The kids meet up at the camp
They switched parents

2006-11-19 07:20:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-19 07:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by jaque 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i am dating this guy and i like him alot but my best guy friend has been getting really close and i like him being close! My guy friend and i talk all the time on the phone about stuff we really shouldn't be talking about considering i have a boyfriend but i like him a whole lot ? help!

2006-11-19 07:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by auttiemarie03 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asian and my fiance is white. My fiance's mom doesn't like me (cause I'm not white) and keeps comparing me to my fiance's white ex-girlfriend. She always puts me on the spot in front of people and interrogates me with questions. One time she told me that she doesn't feel comfortable that I'm dating her son and that her son needs to date "his own kind". I told my fiance what his mom told me and my fiance called his mom on the phone and they started arguing over me. He said "You can not tell me who to date. I love my fiance for what she is inside and not for the color of her skin!" and his mom was like "If you marry this woman, I'm not coming to your wedding! How dare you yell at me!" Blah Blah Blah.....
I feel like our wedding is put on hold because of this woman. If my fiance's mom doesn't come to our wedding then I know my fiance will be hurt because before he met me, him and his mom were like the best of friends. And I feel like I tore them apart or something.

2006-11-19 07:20:43 · 18 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Weddings

2006-11-19 07:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy was totally digging me @ one point! Then he got one of cousins to tell that he never wanted me, that i was annoying, and like i was i was a waste of his time.

2006-11-19 07:19:19 · 8 answers · asked by Blue Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-gf's mother convinced my ex that i was a bad person to be with her, when i gave everything i could to make her happy. we were absolutly happy, then her mother told my ex that i was cheating on her. thats what started the ex-gf thing. what can i do to make her see her mother is manipulating her?

2006-11-19 07:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by acampion2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-19 07:18:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not happy with my husband and my family lives in Arizona. can i just leave with my baby? i'm tired of him miss treating me and not having anything to do with my baby

2006-11-19 07:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 12...my boyfriend has been telling my friends he wants to kiss me. I've kissed one person before in my life and that was just a peck. I don't know what to do! I wanna just say ok and go for it. But i don't know how to or wether i can or anything....no mean answers please...thnx!

2006-11-19 07:17:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to do it twice a day anymore its really just not that enjoyable. She always wants to do it and sometimes I just don't want to. For example, last night I was at a keg party and was drinking a beer with some friends. She asked me to do her in the car. I said no and we ended up fighting about it. She tried to reason with me and just give me head but i just wasn't feeling it until we got home. What is your opinion? This is not a first time thing at all it just bothered me yesterday a lot.

2006-11-19 07:16:32 · 10 answers · asked by jwurm99 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm all alone, a bad mom, i have no friends and my daughter's father doesn't even care about us.I feel i have nothing to live for.I love my daughter but i feel i will just screw up her life the more i stay around 'cause i can't control my emotions.Everytime she says dada i feel so bad cause it's my fault that he's not here with her and i can't change that.His whole family thinks i'm crazy and i guess that i am but i'm so embarrassed for the way i have been acting and i can't do anything to change that.I keep making things worse and i have no one to talk to.I don't know what to do anymore....

2006-11-19 07:15:52 · 13 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family

2006-11-19 07:15:47 · 27 answers · asked by habs 2 in Singles & Dating