my ex-gf's mother convinced my ex that i was a bad person to be with her, when i gave everything i could to make her happy. we were absolutly happy, then her mother told my ex that i was cheating on her. thats what started the ex-gf thing. what can i do to make her see her mother is manipulating her?
2006-11-19 07:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by acampion2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let her go. i have a friend who was in a relationship like that. and he truly loved this woman, but her mother kept getting in the way. he and the young lady were together for five years and he kept proposing to her and her mother said no. finally her mother called the police on him (after the mother invited him over for dinner) and said he threatened her(he never even made it inside). anyway he wind up having a heart attack behind her. after urging him to move on, and "i know it will be hard to find another" he did. and he found another. they are in love with each other and soon will be marrying in the beginning of next year. just let it go and if you get a chance to see or talk to her tell her ,her mom really destroyed a good thing between you two.
2006-11-19 07:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. She is an adult and presumably reasonably intelligent, otherwise you would have no interest in her. Pay her the compliment of believing that she is capable of making her own decisions. When I broke up with my ex, he openly assumed that, as he put it, someone must have talked me into it, since obviously I couldn't possibly have a mind of my own. Even if you are right and her mother is over-influencing her, your ex is not an object for you and her mother to fight over. You must step back and show her that you respect her ability to function as an adult and make her own decisions.
2006-11-19 07:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be very young, insecure and just maybe she wasn't as happy as you were in the relationship. If she's that attached to her mom, there's probably nothing that will make her listen to you instead of her mom. Your best defense is to be a stellar guy and let her discover her loss.
2006-11-19 07:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word here is "ex".... Unless your trying to get back with your ex, stay out of it and ignore the angry rants of you ex-girlfriend's mother.
You tried to make your girlfriend happy and it didn't work out.... You have no vested interest in what you ex-girlfriend mother thinks.
It isn't your job, or your responsiblity to get between your girlfriend's mother and your ex-girlfriend.
2006-11-19 07:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it, the ex is too willing to be controlled by her mama.
2006-11-19 08:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. if she cant see that you are a good person on her own than shes not worth worrying over. thats only my opinion.
2006-11-19 07:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋