Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

im dating this awesome guy but... im finding it hard to get use to it.
we have been together for 1 month today. and he is the oposite of my ex. my ex was more of a sarcastic bad a.ss. and my new b/f is a bad a.ss but in the opposite way, nice and not sarcastic but really smart. so why cant i get use to being with him.

2006-11-19 07:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asian and my fiance is white. My fiance's mom doesn't like me (cause I'm not white) and keeps comparing me to my fiance's white ex-girlfriend. She always puts me on the spot in front of people and interrogates me with questions. One time she told me that she doesn't feel comfortable that I'm dating her son and that her son needs to date "his own kind". I told my fiance what his mom told me and my fiance called his mom on the phone and they started arguing over me. He said "You can not tell me who to date. I love my fiance for what she is inside and not for the color of her skin!" and his mom was like "If you marry this woman, I'm not coming to your wedding! How dare you yell at me!" Blah Blah Blah.....
I feel like our wedding is put on hold because of this woman. If my fiance's mom doesn't come to our wedding then I know my fiance will be hurt because before he met me, him and his mom were like the best of friends. And I feel like I tore them apart or something.

2006-11-19 07:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister gave my phone number to a guy that she works with.
She was trying to be nice as she knows i've just moved to a new area and that I don't get out to meet anyone new [i'm a single mum] This guy has never mentioned a partner and states that he is single.
Anyway this guy has called and texted a few times but I thought he was a bit of a bunny boiler,he was calling and txting an awful lot.
In the end I just ignored him.

Until tonight when this lass phones up and demands to know why I've been txting her partner,
I tried to explain that I'd never even met the guy and he said he was single,when she says she's gonna come and find me and kill me.
I've had 30-40 phone calls within 2 hours which I've ingnored and a txt calling me a coward and to stay away from him
What would you have done.
I've never even met him and I think i've spoken to the postman more than this bloke.
It's really weird.

How can you stay away from someone you haven't met ???

2006-11-19 07:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so im going out with this really sweet boy names tyler. theres this other kid who likes me and hes really sweet and nice. and we talk a lot more then me and tyler do. this other kid says taht he would go out with me in a heart beat if me and tyler ever broke up. and i like this kid. a lot. but i dont know which one i like more. this other kid said that there was this other girl that he like and her friend said that she was going to ask him out. and i have to decide soon because once she asks him out hes going to say yes if i havent decided. i have no clue what to do.

2006-11-19 07:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Giggles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is there a nice way?

2006-11-19 07:40:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I love him more than anything. There is nothing wrong between us, great mental side of the relationship, sex life, everything. He is not even jealous. But thats cause he trusts me. He loves me more than anything and we have an ideal relationship.
The thing is, he is my first bf. First boy I kissed, slept with, everything. And I am his first too. I'm 19, he's 20.

There is this mate, who I really like and he is my bfs friend. I find him extremely attractive, he finds me attractive as he told me, and we flirt. I am a very adventurous person and I like to explore new things. After 3 years, I would like to try something new. I feel very guilty, I dont wanna hurt my boyfriend. He doesnt deserve it. But the truth is, I can imagine ksising this guy. And it MIGHT happen if I wont be able to control myself. I like flirting w/ him.I keep tellin mysel its normal. I am just a human and I have hormones, etc. My bf knows it,says I worry about it too much

2006-11-19 07:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

in my uncles attic i always hear foot steps and go to see if anyone is there and i see nothing. I always lock my closet before i go to sleep and when i wake up it is open

2006-11-19 07:38:37 · 2 answers · asked by trish_womans_champion619 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy Ian. He is attractive, funny, outgoing, and athletic. I am pretty sure I have a crush on him. My best friend asked him to dance with me at the dance on friday but he said he promised to dance with someone else. I don't know about that it confused me. Although he said he has heard of me and the thinks he knows me and would like to get to know me. So I am going to introduce myself on Monday. I dont know what to say! (I have another question posted about that). It seems he can get like any girl he wants. So why would he want me? I wounder if I have a chance with him or not. Whether to flirt or just back off and try to forget.

2006-11-19 07:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this really sweet foreign kid at our school (European, I guess.) He rarely talks, but when he does he talks with an Russian accent. He doesn't have anyone to sit with during lunch, so he goes to the library and studies. He is so endearing, how can I make him more comfortable at school?

2006-11-19 07:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2 in Singles & Dating

(my professor)

I don't want to feel this.

thanx

2006-11-19 07:37:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does the way you ask a girl out affect the outcome? If yes, what is the most efficent way? If no, does anything affect it, besides the person themself? Would this affect the actaual relationship (If she says yes)?

2006-11-19 07:36:52 · 4 answers · asked by Pray 2 in Singles & Dating

see im in love with this guy, but i and too analytical of everything he says, and i think its because i have been hurt so bad in the past, how do i show him i love him but still be able to let go and let what happens happen? how can i show him i love him without him thinking it is too soon or that i am too clingy? he has been hurt in the past before too, how can i show him that all i want to do is love him and how do i get him to just let me love him?

2006-11-19 07:36:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jezyka Isabella 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with my boyfriend for 8 months after this time by a coincidence i knew that he slept with some girls without protection. And some of those girls accted in their lifes bitchy and slept with many guy just for fun. What Should i do in this situation ?? Should we do tests for hiv?? what is your opinion about all this??

2006-11-19 07:36:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 07:35:32 · 4 answers · asked by trish_womans_champion619 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked this guy named Paul for his e-mail address at school to write in my planner. and he seemed happy to do it. and like whenever he handed it back to me, his name was written in cursive and his home phone number and cell # was in there 2! then, my friend Natalie asked for his e-mail, and he handed it back to her in plain writing, and no home # or cell #. does he like me??

2006-11-19 07:34:29 · 10 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3 in Singles & Dating

i eventually got enough courage to tell my friend by txt tht i loved her. but she didnt reply so i told her that it was my friend who txt it not me. i did this cus i felt that she didnt txt me bck cus she didnt love me.so i covered up my tracks to save our friendship. how can i tell her now?? i cannot and willnot do it face to face but she will never believe me if its another txt plz help i dnt know wat to do.

2006-11-19 07:33:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has never liked my friend (male), and my friend has never liked my husband. They actually hate eachother's guts. But it seems like my husband doesn't want me to ever talk with him again, and my friend tries to encourage me to lie to my husband about our friendship.

I love my husband, I just don't want to be one of those women that loses their friends after they get married.
what do you think?

2006-11-19 07:33:32 · 37 answers · asked by 2pretty4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I have a good personality & I'm not ugly, but I just don't think I'll ever find that special guy. A sweet, caring, cute guy that loves me for me. It just doesn't seem like he'll ever find me. I don't think there's any guy at my school that's the one for me, and I just don't know how else he's going to find me. I want him to find me already! :[

2006-11-19 07:32:21 · 6 answers · asked by babyrooster 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 07:32:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does "Friends w/ Benefits" mean?

2006-11-19 07:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting along really well with a guy who has a fan club (girls who call him all the time, obsess about him, etc). He's generally pretty nice to the girls in his fan club, and he's really nice to me, so how do I know that he doesn't think of me as one of his "fans?"
We hang out occasionally and we've talked several times.

2006-11-19 07:32:01 · 3 answers · asked by wyckeinggirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my crush's dad passed away, and i emailed him about how if he ever wanted to tak i would be there, and how he's strong, and i admire him...etc. Well right now he's on msn, I said hi to him before, but he didnt answer, a few minutes later he went off! Now he's on again...should I try and start a convo...with the traditional hi....or should I just leave him alone? Please NO rude comments!

2006-11-19 07:31:29 · 17 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not simple questions like (Example) "Whats my favorite....." (ect.) Good questions!

2006-11-19 07:31:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When my boyfriend was an hour late picking me up from a laundromat, I asked him what took him so long (he was supposedly helping his son). He avoided answering and then got angry when I asked again (I thought he hadn't heard me). He said, "I'm not going to answer that." He said he's sick of my being suspicious of him. I do have trouble trusting him, and I have a habit of asking him where he's been and what he's been doing,but how do I know if he's telling the truth. I heard if someone gets angry and defensive, then they are trying to hide something. Or is he just frustrated with my suspicions?

2006-11-19 07:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by krazykat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 07:29:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my best friend walks all over me and makes me feel bad about myself but we have been friends for 9 years and she just started doing this, and others have noticed and complained also. how do i tell her with out messing up our friendship or hurting her feelings like she does mine. Help i am about to go crazy.

2006-11-19 07:29:46 · 9 answers · asked by bjames_0050 2 in Friends

I asked my flatmate the other day, what he was giving me for christmas, he replied a pearl necklace and a golden shower. I dont know how to tell him I dont like pearls and the shower we have is just fine, I hope he hasnt spent a lot of money i'll feel so guilty. What should i do, just take it, smile and say thankyou?

2006-11-19 07:29:46 · 16 answers · asked by Summerbreeze 2 in Friends

I work with this guy who I have built a strong friendship. He really loves his wife. I have a boyfriend who I love and there is no romantic link between me or my coworker. He talks about her all the time, how much he loves her. He told me she hurt him alot by not returning his call, or dissapearing at night. Last night, after an argument (she said she didnt love him anymore) she left and didn't return home. What can I do

2006-11-19 07:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you tell me the do'es and don'ts of having sex with a virgin please. ive never had sex before and im kinda nervous as to what will happen...like can i feel the protective layer? will it bleed? any answers like tht would be greatly apprecieted thank you..

Roo x

2006-11-19 07:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has never been good about cleaning up her own mess. I've tried talking to her about it. She just gets mad and locks herself in our room. I've tried doing it for her thinking she would feel guilty about me cleaning up her mess. She feels guilty but she still leaves messes around the house. I don't know what to do. I can't stand living this way. I love her so much but she is driving me insane. For instance. She fixed some pumpkin cheesecake cupcakes the other day. She never cleaned up she just put all the dishes in the sink. She also left the can of pumpkin sitting out and now it's molding. I've asked her now two or three times and the last time she got mad and went upstairs. Our room is a mess because she leaves clothes lying everywhere. The living room is a wreck with her stuff laying all over the coffee table and her dirty clothes on the floor. I shouldn't have to clean up her mess! But I can't stand it. How can I get her to be more responsible?

2006-11-19 07:28:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce