see im in love with this guy, but i and too analytical of everything he says, and i think its because i have been hurt so bad in the past, how do i show him i love him but still be able to let go and let what happens happen? how can i show him i love him without him thinking it is too soon or that i am too clingy? he has been hurt in the past before too, how can i show him that all i want to do is love him and how do i get him to just let me love him?
2006-11-19 07:36:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jezyka Isabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do you keep yourself from over analysizing everything they say? how do you just lt go and let what happens happen? how do i let him know i love him without him thinking i am going too fast or being too clingy?
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2006-11-19 07:42:54 · update #1
Being hurt in the past is definately a vital part in this. Honey, if you let what happened to you in the past effect you now and hold you back from anything, you're going to missing out on life. Don't be afraid to really be out there. If you want him to know you love him, be honest and tell him your love for him and your concern about being hurt. Let things in the past go, live this relationship like it's your first. Let the bad happen, because there's bound to be some good too. Good luck.
A.L.
2006-11-19 07:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the relationship don't tell him until it feels right. If you have to ask it's not time. Actions are better then words in many ways. Do things together you both enjoy. Don't push him or you may scare him away. If it's meant to be it will work out. Get to know him well enough where you don't have to worry about going too fast.
2006-11-19 07:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. I can't help butI can defiantly relate. I went out with this guy and I liked him but he did kinda push it and he kept saying nice things and saying how he looovvvvveeeedddd me sooooo much and then sumone said he cheated on me so I broke up with him in a heart beat then I figured out it was a lie by his exgirl friend then we got back together and I love him alot now and yeah it's complicated but sr I can't help
2006-11-19 07:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by henna<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back Off! It going a little too fast!
2006-11-19 07:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop useing the word analytical first of all, and see what happens.
2006-11-19 07:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw2737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself to the fullest?
If you did, then maybe you would have no questions about how to express that love to him.
2006-11-19 07:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by jonas_tripps_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋