can you tell me the do'es and don'ts of having sex with a virgin please. ive never had sex before and im kinda nervous as to what will happen...like can i feel the protective layer? will it bleed? any answers like tht would be greatly apprecieted thank you..
Roo x
2006-11-19 07:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take it s-l-o-w. Thats my advice. I have been there my g,f and I were both virgins. Make sure you use protection! Use a condom dont just rely on the lady to use the pill. The pill wont protect you against nasty STDs!
I dont think you will feel her hymen break, some womens break earlier on in life without even having sex. It could bleed it might not even be there.
Make time for foreplay first too so everything is lubricated! If you just rush in you could hurt yourself.
2006-11-19 07:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all, have you been with her a long time, do you feel comfortable with her?
Okay, well for her it will hurt, probably quite a lot, so take as much time as she needs, make sure she is comfortable and this way it will be less painful for her, make sure she is ready. Kiss her, hold her hand, whatever she needs. Let her know you care about her (im assuming you do) I dont know if you will be able to feel her hymen break as im not a guy. She might bleed, depends if she has used a tampon before or anything like that. Best to put an old towel or t-shirt under you just in case. Also as you are a virgin, dont expect your first time to last very long.
Good luck, and make sure you're really ready to have sex
2006-11-19 11:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hiya
Theres no dos and donts to having sex with a virgin, you cnt feel the protective layer, and yes the female could bleed, but it depends on the individual. Obviously just take it slow, and makesure your ready.
2006-11-19 07:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by linzi_parkes 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scard, the girl shouldnt bleed but if she was a virgin she might but some dont. I think that by going slow, and make sure that your ready is the best thing to do. When you having sex just ask her if shes feeling ok but dont go over the up and ask her every second because it wont be fun.Just relax and have fun and good luck!!!!
2006-11-19 07:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by xx angel 3m xx 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Remember to always show concern and to take things one step at a time. If she isn't comfortable with something then don't do it, oral sex and foreplay mainly. Yes there will be some bleeding but it varies from woman to woman based upon body type, activity level, and other factors. You may feel a slight barrier or it may be thicker it also varies. Just remember to be gentle and take it slowly.
2006-11-19 08:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a big deal about it. If you love each other, then there shouldnt be any problem. I certainly didnt bleed. I doubt if many girls do! This isnt the Victorian era where girls had never used tampons or touched themselves there! Take it slowly, at her pace, and there shouldnt be a problem. (use contraception)
2006-11-19 08:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if the time is right go for it,but take it slow, and remember this is your first experience so take slow and use protection, and dont rush it, and dont worry about the bleeding its part of the package.
take care and stay safe
2006-11-19 08:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What protective layer, how old are you? no she should not bleed , asmall amount of women have a small show of blood but nothing to worry about. The first time can be a bit worrying for both of you but practise makes perfect
2006-11-19 07:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by MISSY G 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
ok, take it really slow! don't force things cause it can hurt you both! she will feel uncomfortable at first so listen to her. good luck
2006-11-19 08:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont think its people on here you should be asking. ask her.
2006-11-19 07:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋