I am with my boyfriend for 8 months after this time by a coincidence i knew that he slept with some girls without protection. And some of those girls accted in their lifes bitchy and slept with many guy just for fun. What Should i do in this situation ?? Should we do tests for hiv?? what is your opinion about all this??
2006-11-19 07:36:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Test for HIV. You have to take precautions for this type of situations. Also, you should probably take them periodically. Twice a year at the least. This will not only keep you safe, but others, too. Ask your bf to get tested, too...he could be in danger.
2006-11-19 07:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when in doubt, a test should always be necessary. It's better to be on the safe side. If you don't have it, at least you know you're HIV&STD free, and if you find out you do have something, hopefully it can be helped quickly.
2006-11-19 07:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
newsflash sweetie...if you man slept with those women it is essentially as though you have shared all of their partners too. If you are not using condoms and are having unprotected sex then you may well have already contracted an std or other virus; should you test? sure, if you are infected then you will need to start a drug treatment regimen to stay healthy.
My opinion about all of this? it isnt nice but I will tell you anyway. You and your man are idiots and gambling with your health and not being socially responsible makes you a prime candidate for an awakening of epic proportions, like discovering you have an std or even worse, hiv or herpes. have a nice day.
2006-11-19 07:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have the test for HIV/AIDS done and also a screening for any other STD's, Just to be safe.
2006-11-19 07:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If... you feel that you are, or eventually want to be a responsible person... then yes... you should have the test, then have no more unprotected sex.
If... you don't really care about being responsible or responsibility in general... then no. Why? Because irresponsible people are their own worst enemies, and stupid people have a way of killing-off themselves. AIDS is nothing more than one of nature's ways of 'cleansing the herd'. Act irresponsible, and pay the price... and, it's a slow, painful, and unpleasant way to die. The choice is yours.
2006-11-19 07:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by morbius001a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should test for ALL STD's at LEAST once a year. Do you wear condoms with him? ---- YOU SHOULD!!!! I know it sounds kinda gross, but um.... don't swallow. Know what I mean? So what if it makes him feel like a man - it's unsafe in this day and age. Make him wear a condom when or if you go down on him.
Also, look on the net for clinics or hospitals that do free STD testing. It's also confidentual.
Good luck!
2006-11-19 07:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Audania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to feel good and secure, if you think that a test it's better then go for it. I think it's a good idea based on the things he did in the past
2006-11-19 07:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the ONLY reason why I got married.....to reduce the chances of me getting HIV...at this point getting test will not reduce your chances or help....it will only tell you if you have it or not....
Reduce your chances by living a different life style....PERIOD.
DO NOT PUT YOUR LIFE IN ANOTHER PERSONS HANDS...err private parts
My wife doesnt know it but the only reason I married her is to bang her and only her instead of 100 other chicks.
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2006-11-19 07:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is better to be safe than sorry. If you get tested and signs of effection is found early then there is a better chance for you to live a longer healther life...than to put it off and take the risk.
I pray he and you are ok.
2006-11-19 07:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this be a lesson to abandon what liberals have falsely told you is "okay and great," and resolve to never have sex again until you're married. I hope that the tests work out okay for you, and liberals should be locked away in mental institutions
2006-11-19 07:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋