My sister gave my phone number to a guy that she works with.
She was trying to be nice as she knows i've just moved to a new area and that I don't get out to meet anyone new [i'm a single mum] This guy has never mentioned a partner and states that he is single.
Anyway this guy has called and texted a few times but I thought he was a bit of a bunny boiler,he was calling and txting an awful lot.
In the end I just ignored him.
Until tonight when this lass phones up and demands to know why I've been txting her partner,
I tried to explain that I'd never even met the guy and he said he was single,when she says she's gonna come and find me and kill me.
I've had 30-40 phone calls within 2 hours which I've ingnored and a txt calling me a coward and to stay away from him
What would you have done.
I've never even met him and I think i've spoken to the postman more than this bloke.
It's really weird.
How can you stay away from someone you haven't met ???
2006-11-19 07:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a large male friend around to their house just for protection, and confront them both and show her the phone texts. Then leave this stalker to deal with his damaged relationship. It's not your fault so don't worry about the effect this may have on his relationship. He didn't consider that when he started this.
2006-11-19 07:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although your sister was trying to set you up with someone, I think she should have introduced you to this guy in person. But having moved to a new area, your sister should have left you to try and find a new partner for yourself. Nonetheless, don't mind these persistent calls from this lass as they might be working together with this guy just to wind you up. As a precaution, get a new sim card and tell your sister about what she has brought into your life and warn her never to do it again.
2006-11-19 08:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, perhaps he is in the habit of txting girls, no wonder his gf is a bit of a psycho! lol.
I would ignore the calls, and it if persists keep all the txt msgs on your phone and consult the police and advise them of the levels of threat. This is classed as harrasment and you shouldnt have to put up with it.
I would also have a little word with your sister and ask her to speak to him at work and let him know the score.
You should be fine but it you are frightened then please consult the police, you have to think of your family and if she is displaying threatening behaviour then she should be sorted!
good luck x
2006-11-19 07:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by SARA H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect the phone unless you want to use it. Go to your telephone provider and tell them you are getting abusive phone calls from that number and can they filter them off. This girl does not know where you live so cannot harm you. Tell your sister that with the best of intentions she has really messed up and that under no circumstances whatsoever she should give your number or address to anyone without your consent.She can speak to her colleague, and tell him that his girlfriend is hassling you, and if he does not do something about it you will go to the police.
If this girl continues to hassle you, do go to the police.
2006-11-19 08:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by WISE OWL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) phone cops
2) have a whistle handy, if you get a nuisance call from him or her blow down the phone.
3) phone cops if this happens and you have to resort to this.
4) record the threats on phone, most mobiles have a dictaphone ability. but make sure you inform the other party you are recording them first.
2006-11-19 08:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly babe i am just as shocked and amazed as u are. So i wish i could help but i dont know..... good luck though and be careful... wait if neither one of them know who u are and what u look like then u should be ok just dont call the guy and accept the calls, u should also get ur number changed
2006-11-19 07:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless you. I would tell you Sister to start with and i would ring this woman or answer the phone to her and tell the truth be straight with her. Text him and say what the hell are you playing at.... I would not stand for that sh*t Stand up for yourself you will feel better when you have. x
Answer the phone and tell the truth and say ASK HIM TO TELLTHE TRUTH AND YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING AND YOU CAN PROVE IT WITH YOUR PHONE BILL. SAY IF THEY HAVE PROBLEMS THAT IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM AND IF SHE OR HE CALLS AGAIN YOU WILL CONTACT THE POLICE !!
2006-11-19 07:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Thats a tricky one!!!!! He is well weird! Stay clear of him and the g/f! Not sure what to say really! One thing for sure, tell your sis not to give out your number to anyone!!!! If they keep hassling you, then go to the police and explain!
2006-11-19 07:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, ignore all communication, and move on (who cares and thank god u dont really know this psycho anyways), date/ go out with someone more normal and enjoyable.
not the liar with the psycho head ache girl friend, he will probably b a head ache for u too. he is a pathetic dumb *** if u ask me. boring and yawn.
2006-11-19 07:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Super Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a go at your sister for doing something stupid. Record all threats then change sim card
2006-11-19 08:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by claire c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋